如何做好一个聆听者?

Ask questions----when you don't understand, when you need further clarification, when you want them to like you and when you want to show that you are listening.

　　问问题——如你不甚理解，你需要进一步澄清，当你希望他们喜欢你并且想证明你正在听时。

　　Don't interrupt----give them time to say what they have to say.

　　不要打岔——给他们时间说他们必须说的一切。

　　Concentrate on what they are saying---- actively focus your attention on their words, their ideas and their feelings as they relate to the subject.

　　集中精神听他们说——当他们说到主题时，主动把你的注意力放在你们的言语思想和感情上。

　　Look at the prospect---- by looking, it gives them confidence that you are, in fact, listening. It helps you to concentrate too.

　　望着前方——通过望对方，对方就更有信心，说明你正听他说话，这也有助于你集中精神。