友情也有"七年之痒" 传授保鲜秘籍

　　3 Make sure you aren't being a burden to a friend.

　　确保你不会成为朋友的负担。

　　Be sensitive to how much your friend can and can't offer you – be it time, energy or help – and don't overstep the mark.

　　要摸清楚你的朋友可以给你提供的时间、精力和帮助有多少，不要跨越那个界限。

　　4 Be a good listener.

　　做一个好的聆听者。

　　Simply to listen as he or she pours it all out or is seeking your advice or opinion.

　　当你的朋友向你征求建议的时候，你只要听就可以了。

　　5 Be in your friend's corner if he or she's not there to defend him or herself.

　　为朋友可以两肋插刀。

　　If you're at a gathering at which someone mentions your friend disparagingly, defend him or her against gossip or criticism.

　　如果你听到别人在诋毁你的朋友，你应该勇敢的站出来保护他。