幸福人生教给我们的10个启迪

Freedom is the greatest gift. Self-sufficiency is the greatest freedom.
自由是最伟大的礼物。自给自足是最伟大的自由。

Even when you feel like you have nothing, someone else likely has far less. Find them and help them. You’ll see why.
即使你感到自己拥有的东西很少，有些人会比你更少。找到他们，帮助他们，你自己会发现原因的。

Marriages evolve and change. The feelings you had for the man or woman you married will mutate and evolve several times over the life of a marriage. Hopefully you will evolve in the same direction or at least embrace and accept the changes in the other person. It takes work, and sometimes it takes counseling. Don’t gloss over those changes or you may wake up next to a stranger one day.
婚姻会发生变化。在婚姻的旅途中，你和对方的感情会发生变化。希望你们可以变化的方向相同，至少可以接受彼此的变化。这需要工作或者咨询。不要掩饰这些变化，否则你会发现躺在你身边的是一个陌生人。

Negativity breeds more negativity. When you focus only on the negative, obviously that’s all you will see. You will not seek out positivity, and even when positivity comes into your life, you’ll look for the negative side of things.
越消极就会越消极。如果你只注意到消极的一面，所有你看到的都是消极的。你不会看到积极的东西，即使积极的事物闯进你的生活，你只会看到消极的一面。

If you want something in your life you’ve never had, you’ll have to do something you’ve never done.
如果你想拥有生活中从没有过的东西，你就需要做一些你从没做过的事情。