细节成就爱情：恋爱中需要注意的5大细节

One of the most precious facets of a relationship is the ability to share and talk random stuff. Listen and accept your partner’s secrets (be it the heavy and serious ones or the outright dumb and funny ones) and become her confidante. In turn, do make it a point to share yours. By doing so, you will open up the channel of communication and facilitate free-talk and the fostering of trust.
恋爱中最珍贵的一点是能够随心所欲地分享和交谈。聆听，保守恋人的秘密（无论是严肃认真的还是傻傻有趣的），成为她的知己。反过来，你也要去分享自己的秘密。这样就可以建立一个交流和自由对话的桥梁，进而有了信任。

4. Remember dates
4.记得重要的日子

Women have a huge problem with a man’s inability to remember dates. You must avoid pissing her off by making an attempt to remember the dates that matter. Store them in your phone calendar or stick post-its on your office desk if you must, but do not forget important dates!
男人总是不能记住重要的日子是女人们的一大烦恼。你必须要记住重要的日子，才能不让她失望。把这些日子存在手机的日历里，或者在办公桌上贴上便签，千万别忘了重要的日子！

5. Share your ambitions
5.分享你的志向

Opening up to your girl and letting her in on your ambitions and career plans makes her feel needed and important. So don’t shy away from discussing work with her. Ask her for suggestions and inputs and she might just surprise you with her ability to solve your work related problems.
向你的女朋友展示你的志向和工作计划，让她觉得她也是被需要的，她很重要。所以别害羞与她谈论工作的事情，问她一些建议，她解决相关工作问题的能力也许会让你大吃一惊。