如何观察她的心中有没有你?

1. All Communication is Initiated by You
1. 你们之间所有的联系都由你单方面发起

This is easily one of the most obvious indicators that something is up. If you miss this sign, then you're in straight denial. It's common sense: Girls like to talk. And talk. And talk. Oftentimes they just yammer on to the point where we start to block them out - and those aren't even the girls we're dating. When you're going with a gal, chances are that almost every time you two talk, it's initiated by her, and she's the one doing most of the communicating. For the most part, nothing can get a girl to shut up if she feels like talking. I mean, even when they're mad and don't want to talk to you, they repeatedly tell you that they don't want to talk to you (Aha! A clue, Sherlock!). But anyways, long story short: when she stops trying to talk to you, hide all the life jackets, because this b*tch is gearing up to jump ship.
女孩们总是喜欢不停的说啊……说啊……说啊……大部分时候，只要她们想说，任何事情都阻止不了她们，除非她们转性了或者根本不想搭理你。所以，当她们反复强调自己不想说话时，那你就真的杯具了……

2. She's Not Jealous Anymore
2. 她不再吃醋

Remember all those "hoes" and "skanks" she used to accuse you of sleeping with? Or how every time you hung out with your best female friend she'd throw a fit, claiming that if you really loved her you wouldn't hang out with other girls all the time? Well believe it or not, that was good. Jealousy meant she cared. If she starts letting you hangout with whomever you want, without any sort of protest or snide comments, well you'd best believe you've got problems.
吃醋表明在乎你。如果有一天她不再过问你和谁出去，那你们之间可能就有问题了。

3. She Replies with One-Word Texts
3. 短信就回一个字

This should speak for itself. We've already gone over just how much gals like to talk and communicate. When she can't even bother to respond to your texts with a full sentence, chances are that she just doesn't give a damn anymore. This doesn't necessarily apply if she was a sh*t texter from the get-go, although if she is a generally bad texter, you should be wondering why that is, as it might be indicative of a bigger issue. I say this because in general, ladies are much better at texting than us guys. So when a babe just happens to suck at thumb-talk, it's not because she hasn't had enough practice, it's because she consciously decides to send sh*tty answers - and that's cause for concern. Moral of the story: if she's giving you one-word replies, 9/10 times you have something to be worried about.
大部分情况下，女生比起男生更擅长使用短信。当她的短信长度不超过一句话时，你就自求多福吧。