爱情打败距离：5招教你异地恋应该这样走下去

No.1 Video Chat Regularly
第一招：经常视频聊天

Whether you use Face Time, iChat, Google Chat, or Skype, being able to see each other while you talk about your annoying coworker or the hilarious thing your buddy did at the bar adds another layer of communication that helps you stay close. Video chatting is an especially good idea when you’re arguing; your normal tension-dissolving tactics don’t translate as well over the phone.
什么样的视频聊天工具都好，当你在抱怨惹人讨厌的同事或者分享好伙伴在酒吧里做过的一些非常滑稽的事情的时候，要能看到对方，这样能够带来不同感觉的聊天效果，帮助你们维系彼此间的亲密感。当你们在争论的时候，视频聊天是一个非常好的方式；电话聊天无法很好地传达和帮助消除紧张感。

No.2 Don't Be Jealous Of Her Guy Friends
第二招：不要嫉妒她的异性朋友

One of the few upsides to being in a long-distance relationship is that you’re always free to hang out with friends. Your job as the boyfriend is to make sure she knows you’re cool with that -- even if her plans involve dudes you don’t know. Trust me, it’ll work to your advantage in the long-run: If you get defensive whenever she wants to spend time with a guy, she’ll assume it’s because you’re not being faithful when you’re around other women. But if you’re cool with it, you automatically seem more trustworthy, preventing any major jealousy issues before they start.
远距离异地恋情中少有的一个好处是：可以很自由的与自己的朋友聚在一起。作为她的男友要做的，就是确保让她知道，关于这点你很放心，就算她会与一些你不认识的男生一起出门玩。相信我，长期坚持这样做对你们的关系是非常有利的：如果每次她说要跟异性朋友一起你就很有防备心，那久而久之，她就会怀疑是不是因为你和其他的女性一起的时候有做过对不起她的事情。但如果你放心她的话，会得到更多的信任，这些信任能够消除任何重大的猜疑与嫉妒。