甜言蜜语爱意挡不住：男人女人都爱听的7句话

4. “There’s something you do that I find adorable.”
“我发现有时你很可爱。”

When you notice—and love—something about your partner that isn’t obvious to world, it tells them you’re interested enough in them to pay attention to the small things. It also confirms the intimate nature of your relationship. Be aware of the cute, charming things they do that you find irresistible. Then tell them what you admire!
如果你发现TA有别人看不到的可爱之处，说明你真的非常非常在乎TA所以才会关注这些细微末节。这也表示你俩关系真的亲密无间。留心他/她令你无法抗拒的可爱迷人之处，并将你的喜爱说出来吧！

5. “That looks good on you.”
“你看上去帅呆了/美极了。”

This is not a revelation, but how many of us forget to acknowledge our loved ones when they are looking good? It is well understood that women appreciate positive feedback about their appearance—but so do men. He wants to look good … and often works hard to get there. How nice to be told sometimes that it’s working.
这句美言众人皆知。可现实中又有多少人真正做到呢？人们都知道女人喜欢别人赞美她的容貌——其实男人也是啊。男人也希望自己看上去又帅又酷，并为此不遗余力。有时夸赞这么一句绝对受用哦。

6. “You know what? You are right.”
“哎，还是你说得对啊。”

The ability to admit when we are wrong, and give credit to your partner when they are right, is BIG! It’s not easy to put our ego’s aside, but it’s important to be able to do so, because a relationship is not about winning.
承认自己的错误而对方是正确的，这是很了不起的事情！放下自我绝非易事，可这么做却很重要。要知道，恋爱并不是谁赢谁输的问题。

7. “I really like your friends (or kids or family members).”
“我很喜欢你的朋友/小孩/家人。”

Most women are communal creatures, and relationships are very important to them. So it means a lot when you say something wonderful about the people she loves. Tell her you think her dad is wise, or one of her kids is especially talented, or her close friend is fun to be with. By complimenting the people closest to your partner, you’re affirming them as well.
多数女人是群居动物，特看重人际关系。如果你喜欢她身边的人，夸她老爸睿智、孩子聪明、朋友风趣，她会很开心。爱屋及乌，夸她身边的人也让她很有面子呢。