谁说长相最重要？女人最在乎的7件事

You could have a charming personality and good manners, but if you show no care and compassion towards her and the people you love then you are not ‘the man’. We don’t mean to pressurise you with all these expectations, but what we mean to say is that you must cultivate a basic level of care and compassion.
你性格有魅力且举止得体，但如果你对她或你爱的人没有丝毫体贴呵护，那么你也不会成为她心中的“那一位”。这并不是要用各种期望来给你施加压力，而是希望你至少有起码的关心与体贴。