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谁道少年不识愁滋味:13岁是一道坎
6.你的朋友会惹恼你,让你生气让你愤怒。但不要在Twitter上侮辱他们——13岁孩子一直以来都是这样做的。Twitter是一个公共论坛,如果你开始在推特上抱怨你的问题,任何人都可以参与进来即使不关他们的事。
7. A few months ago, you hardly thought about your body at all. Now it's the only thing on your mind. Of course your body matters: but the thing to think is that no one else notices it as much as you do. So try to chill about it.
7.几个月前你很难会想到你的身体。现在它是唯一萦绕你心间的事情。当然你的身体很重要:但要想到的是没有人会像你一样那么地注意它。所以尝试对此冷静。
8. At precisely the moment when you decide there's no better way to spend a Saturday than staying in bed till afternoon, your parents will become obsessed with you doing the chores for them. Rule of thumb: you can only say, "I'll do it later," five times. After that, just do it.
8.恰恰在这一刻你发现没有比呆在床上直到下午更好的方式来度过星期六,你的父母会变得痴迷于你为他们做家务。经验:你只能说“我稍后做”五遍。在那之后就动手吧。
9. Thirteen-year-olds have massive fights with their friends, all the time. A year on, you won't even remember what those fights were about – but you will remember how unhappy they made you feel.
9.13岁的孩子所有这段时间与他们的朋友之间有大量的争斗。一年过去,你甚至不记得这些争斗是与什么有关,但你会记得他们让你感到那么得不高兴。
10. Plan a really good party for when you reach 14. When the parents say they want to be around you'll think, "OMG no," ... but it's probably going to be best to let them stay. Agree on the conditions, and stick to your side of the bargain provided they stick to theirs.
10.当你达到14岁时计划一个真正好的派对。当父母们说他们想要在你周围时你会想“天啊,不要啊”……但让他们待着可能是最好的。赞成一些条件,在协商中坚持你自己那边他们坚持他们的。