爱情也有诀窍：让男生爱上你的20个小技巧

The old saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach isn’t just an old saying for no reason- it’s totally true! I always bake a little treat for a guy when I’m trying to make him fall in love with me, and then I just surprise him with it on a random day. When my husband and I were first dating, I left a bag of treats in his locker before every football game. He just loved it!
有话说得好，想要抓住男人的心，先要抓住男人的胃。这句话之所以经典并不是没有理由的——这句话说得太对了！当我想要让男生爱上我时，我总会给他烤一个小蛋糕，在随便哪一天出其不意地送给他。当我和我丈夫最初开始交往的时候，我会在每场足球赛之前在他的储物柜里放上一小袋吃的。他爱死这些东西了！

12. GIVE HIM FREEDOM
给他自由

When a guy’s trying to determine if you’re girlfriend material, he will test you a little bit. My advice at this point is to give him his freedom, and that will send him right back for more. In my experience, if any guy every got the impression that I’d try to tie him down, he’d be gone lightening fast. So, let your guy know that you value and respect his time with his friends, playing sports, or whatever it is he does in his spare time.
男生有时会测试一下女生，看看她是否适合做女朋友。我的建议是，给他一点自由的空间，这样他就会马上回到你的身边。根据我的经验来看，男生只要一开始觉得我想要束缚他，他就会飞也似地逃走。所以你要让男生知道他和朋友在一起的时，参加体育活动时，或是他想在闲暇时间做其他任何事时，你都会重视并且尊重他的想法。

13. LET HIM CALL YOU
让他给你打电话

When I’m trying to get a guy, I play a little hard to get. I don’t call him all the time, try to track him down, or generally make myself a bother. I want him to think that I’m too busy out there having a great time to bother with him, and that he better get in touch with me quickly if he’s interested in sharing any time with me! Let him do the pursuing, and he’ll be much more interested in you.
当我想要得到一个男生的心时，我就会表现得让他觉得我很难到手。我不会一直打电话给他，不会试图知道他每时每刻在哪里，不会自己给自己添任何麻烦。我希望他觉得我太忙了，没时间理他，如果他对我还有意思就快点联系我。让男生来追你，这样他会对你更有兴趣。

14. PRACTICE MIRRORING STRATEGIES
模仿他的动作

Okay, this seems a little creepy at first, but just hear me out. Whenever I want to impress or charm someone (not just guys, but anyone), I do a little physical mirroring. What this means is taking whatever physical action that person does, waiting about five seconds, and then copying the motion. For instance, if your guy rests his elbow on the table, wait five seconds, and then put your elbow on the table. Sounds silly, but it works! It creates a connection between me and the guy that he just can’t explain.
好吧，乍听起来可能有点毛骨悚然，不过还是先听我说完吧。当我先要给别人留下印象或是吸引别人时（不只对男生，对所有人都如此），我就会模仿他的身体动作。具体意思是：无论这个人做了什么动作，等五秒，然后重复一遍他的动作。比如说，你心仪的男生把手搁在桌子上，等五秒，然后你也把手放在桌子上。这听起来很傻，不过真的有用！这样我和那个男生之间产生了一种共鸣，而且他根本无法解释。

15. MAKE EYE CONTACT
眼神交流

Staring deeply into someone’s eyes quickly ramps up the intensity of the connection between two people. So, if I’m trying to get a guy to fall in love with me, I stare deeply into his eyes while we’re talking. Now, don’t look too long, or you’ll appear to be a stalker… but you definitely want extended eye contact.
直视别人的眼睛能迅速加强两人之间的联系。当我想要让男生爱上我时，我就会在谈话时只是他的眼睛。不过，不要盯太长时间，不然你会看起来像跟踪狂一样。眼神交流的时间长绝对是没有错的