职场新调查:工作生活失衡不能怪老板

Restore Work-Life Sanity
工作生活失衡不能怪老板

Working all hours? No time for family or hobbies? Stop blaming your employer and take responsibility for your own role in managing your work and life commitments, say a growing number of workplace and management experts -- most prominently Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg in her new book Lean In.
你是不是每天从早忙到晚？你是不是没有时间照顾家庭，享受兴趣爱好？越来越多的职场和管理专家表示，这可不能怪东家，你得自己负责管好你的工作与生活的各项事务。这些声音中，最引人关注的是Facebook首席运营官谢丽尔•桑德伯格在她的新书《互依》（Lean In）中的最新表述。

After all, with technology and a global economy blurring the lines between the job and home, the corporation is no longer in a position to tell you when to stop working, which tasks to prioritize, or how to set personal boundaries, says Cali Williams Yost, flexible work consultant and author of Tweak It: Make What Matters to You Happen Every Day.
毕竟，科技和经济的全球化使得工作与家庭的界线变得越来越模糊，公司也不再承担这样的一个职责：告诉员工何时停下工作，优先处理哪些事情，以及如何设定个人空间界线等，《微调：一天一天实现梦想》（Tweak It: Make What Matters to You Happen Every Day）一书的作者、灵活工作咨询师凯利•威廉姆斯•尤斯特表示。

"We all have a completely different set of circumstances and goals and priorities, " Yost says. "We're reaching at a natural point where companies can't do much more than what they're doing: offering the flexibility and rolling it out well. Now we need to use it."
“我们都有完全不同的状况、目标和优先事项，”尤斯特说。 “我们正在接近一个自然的临界点，超过这个临界点之后，公司除了提供工作的灵活性，妥善执行灵活性之外，再也无能为力。如今，我们需要利用灵活性。”

To be sure, not every employer has developed a functional approach to flexible work. And plenty of workers are still struggling with out-of-date bosses who categorically oppose workplace flexibility or simply undermine it, despite the documented benefits such as higher productivity, lower turnover, and greater job satisfaction. (Yahoo (YHOO) CEO Marissa Mayer's recent ban on telecommuting may come to mind.)
当然，并不是每家公司都已培育出有效的灵活工作方式。而且，很多员工还在和守旧的老板进行斗争。尽管灵活安排工作环境好处显而易见，比如，它可以提高生产率、降低人员流失和提高工作满意度等，但这些老板依然明确反对，甚至从中作梗。【这时，你或许会想起最近雅虎（Yahoo）CEO玛丽莎•梅耶尔禁止远程办公的禁令。】

In that case, you have two choices: work within your current restrictions or change jobs. Don't be like the 75% of people who, according to Yost's research, believe that their boss or employer must provide work-life flexibility in order for it to be possible, citing increased workloads and lack of time as obstacles.
在这种情况下，你有两种选择：要么遵从新的规则，要么换工作。不要像尤斯特调查的那75%的人一样，他们认为，老板或雇主必须提供工作与生活之间的灵活性，而且他们还将工作压力大和缺乏时间视为障碍。

"Whether you have a supportive workplace culture or you don't, at the end of the day the responsibility for making it work comes down to each of us, " says Brad Harrington, executive director of the Boston College Center for Work and Family. "You can only blame your employer for so long. Assuming you have marketable skills and that you have the courage of your convictions, at some point you have to say, 'It comes down to me to fix the situation.'"
“无论你是否拥有支持性的工作环境，归根结底，灵活工作那一套能不能够行得通，责任还是得落在我们每个人肩上，”波士顿学院工作和家庭中心（Boston College Center for Work and Family）执行董事布拉德•哈林顿说。“不能再把责任推给老板了。假设你拥有具有市场竞争力的技能，而且你拥有坚定的信念，终有一天，你必须告诉自己，‘我得自己来改变这个现状了。’”

To begin to restore work-life sanity, assess the demands on your time both personally and professionally, in the context of your aspirations for your career and home life. Make sure to capture a complete picture by combining your personal and work calendars, Yost says.
为了重建工作和生活的平衡，不妨根据你对职业和家庭生活的期望，从个人和职业角度对时间需求进行评估。尤斯特说，要结合个人和工作日程安排，全盘考虑。

Each week, she advises setting aside time to put on your calendar every task on your to-do list, whether that's a date night with your spouse, two hours of focused strategic planning, or a specific work project. If you can't find a block of time for certain items, you'll either have to put them off or delegate them to someone else. As you see commitments coming up that will require you to shift your work schedule, communicate with your family and colleagues to make it happen.
她建议，每周都划出一些时间把你要完成的工作排入日程表，无论这是与爱人的晚间约会、是两个小时专注的战略性规划，还是完成具体的工作项目。如果有些事情你找不到整块时间来做，要么延后，要么分配给其他人。如果你发现有些事情需要改变原有的工作安排，请与你的家人和同事沟通协调。