想让自己更有效率？7大习惯要抛弃

Successful people make choices, they are decisive – and they get quite a few decisions wrong. But they move forward. When they see an opportunity, they seize it. Unsuccessful people often avoid hard choices. They defer decisions. They wait to see what will happen. They fear that if they make a decision it might turn out to be the wrong decision so they pause. They do not move forward. They miss opportunities.
成功的人果断作出选择——他们决定的错误率相当高。但他们不会停滞不前。一旦机会呈现在他们面前，就别想跑掉。不成功的人常常避开艰难选择，他们推迟决定，他们静观其变。他们担心，如果一旦作出决定，可能导致错误发生，所以他们停下来。他们举步不前，他们错失良机。

6. They do not work through people.
不借助他人之力。

Successful people achieve success by asking, motivating and involving others. They network and approach contacts for help and information. Ineffective people prefer to browse the internet and occasionally meet some familiar people face to face. They do not actively network and engage others in their plans and projects.
成功的人求教、激发或借助他人，达到自己成功的目的。他们建立社交网、多方联络求得帮助，获取信息。没效率的人喜欢浏览网络，偶尔与熟悉的人面对面交流。他们不主动社交，不吸引他人加入自己的计划或项目。

7. They blame others.
推卸责任。

Ineffective people have a long list of excuses. They are victims. Their parents, teachers, bosses and colleagues have all let them down from time to time. They have been unlucky. Fate has conspired against them. Successful people take ownership of their lives and do not blame others. They know that it is their actions and choices that determine their success or failure.
没效率的人总是有很多借口。他们是牺牲品。他们的父母、老师、老板和同事时时让他们失望。他们运气不好。命运成心跟他们作对。成功的人是自己命运的主宰，不归咎他人。他们知道，决定他们成败的是他们的行动与选择。

If you read the biographies of successful people in different fields you find that they share some common habits. They set goals, they believe in themselves, they take risks, they work through people, they demand much of themselves, they make decisions and they take full responsibility for their careers and objectives.
各种领域都有成功的人，当读到他们的传记时，你会发现他们有着共同的习惯。他们有目标，他们相信自己，他们敢于冒险，他们借助他人，他们对自己要求较高，一旦作出决定，他们会为自己的职业生涯和目标担负起全部责任。

It is not so easy to read the stories of ineffective people because, although there are a great many of them, very few warrant a biography. However, just like the successful, the ineffective are shaped by their habits, actions and attitudes.
不大容易读到不成功的人的故事，因为他们虽为数众多，却几乎没有人为自己树碑立传。然而和成功的人一样，不成功的人由他们的习惯、行动和态度所造就。

How can an ineffective person become effective and successful? First by acknowledging that they have some bad habits that are restricting them, and then by taking actions to break the habits. Ingrained habits are hard to break, but it can be done. That is what successful people do.
没效率的人怎样变得高效与成功呢？首先要认识到束缚自己的一些坏习惯，然后采取措施改掉这些坏习惯。积习难改，但可以改。那就是成功的人所做的。