剩女也要宁缺勿滥 十种奇葩男约会不得

He's cute, fun, smart and you can't stop thinking about him. Not so fast. While many men may seem ideal after just a few weeks of dating, upon closer inspection, there can be warning signs that you should avoid a relationship with this person. It is important to recognize these warning signs before it's too late.
他长得帅，又很有趣，而且聪明，你都没法停下来不去想他。别太快陷进去。有些男人在约会几周后看上去似乎就是理想的另一半，但再仔细观察一下，有些警示信息就会出现了，告诉你这样的男人要不得。尽快发现这些警示很重要，以免后悔莫及。

1. The set-in-his-ways guy.
只按自己方式做事的男人

These men will only become more rigid over time. Dating someone who refuses to do anything new makes for a long-term relationship that is both boring and one-sided. Assuming that he will eventually change and open up to your hobbies is misguided. This will likely never happen.
随着年龄的增长，这样的男人只会越来越固执。如果你的约会对象不愿意做些新的事情来维持你们的关系，不让你们的关系变得单调又一边倒的话，假设这样的男人会改变，并且会迎合你的兴趣，那你就太天真了。这种事是绝对不会发生的。

2. The pick-up-after-me guy.
需要你来料理生活的男人

You are his partner, not his maid. Men who expect you to clean up their dishes, pick up their clothes and take care of them as if they are little children on a consistent basis need a really check, and will likely treat you as if you are their mother for the rest of their lives.
你是他的另一半，而不是他的女佣。这种男人会指着你来刷盘子、洗衣服、照顾他的饮食起居，把自己当成是需要人经常照顾的小孩，而把你当成是他的老妈子。

3. The I-don't-know-what-I'm-looking-for guy.
“我不知道我要什么”的男人

One day, he wants a relationship. The next day, he wants kids. Two months later, he's not sure about either. Often times when this line is pulled, its code for "I'm looking for a marriage and kids, just not with you." Steer clear.
今天他想要谈恋爱，明天他想要有孩子，两个月后，他又什么都不确定了。经常出现从这种男人嘴里说出的台词是“我想要结婚，也想要有孩子，不过不是和你。”想想清楚吧，妹子们。

4. The I-need-to-watch-sports-all-the-time guy.
“我只想一直看比赛”的男人

There's nothing wrong with sitting on the couch and watching sports. Many guys do. But this should never trump the responsibilities of a relationship or take precedence over family obligations. There is a difference between loving sports and having a childish obsession with them. Choose a man who knows the difference.
蜷坐在沙发上，看看体育比赛，这没什么不好的，很多男人都会这么做。但是决不能因此而逃避家庭中的责任和义务。热爱体育和孩子气的沉迷比赛是有很大不同的。你要找的男人必须要会分辨其中的差别。

5. The I-don't-like-your-friends guy.
“我不喜欢你的朋友”的男人

No man is more important than your friends. If he doesn't like them and refuses to hang out with them, leave immediately.
没有一个男人会比你的朋友更重要。如果他不喜欢你的朋友，不愿意和他们一起出去，那就赶紧离开这个男人。