梳理你的人生：生活中你到底想要什么？

You can soar only by pushing back against something you don’t want. Figure out what upsets you, and be specific about it. Don’t just say that you hate your office job. Pinpoint exactly why you hate it. Could it be your micromanaging boss? Your workload? Your meaningless job title? Or all of the above? What bothers you, and how can you fix it? How much do you want to fix it?
只有抛开讨厌的东西，你才能振翅飞翔。想想什么使你心烦，一定要具体。不要简单说你讨厌上班，而应具体弄清究竟讨厌上班哪一点：是因为吹毛求疵的老板吗？工作量太大？职称不起眼？或全都有？什么使你心烦并该如何应对？你又愿意付出多少去解决？

5. Determine what makes you truly happy
发现什么让你真正快乐

There’s no waste to life if you’re happy living it. Your happiness is the root of your desires. So take a few moments and really think about what makes you happy. Is it traveling? Being around children? Owning a successful business? Your significant other? Financial freedom? Once you pinpoint the one thing that makes you happy the most, you’ll have a pretty clear idea of what you should strive for in your life.
开心度过的生活才算完满。快乐是愿望之源。所以，花点时间想清楚什么使你开心——旅行？和小孩玩乐？事业有成？伴侣？还是经济独立？一旦找到最让你开心的那件事，你便能明确知道自己该努力过怎样的生活。

6. Let people around you know what you’re trying to achieve
让身边的人知道你的目标

Don’t keep your goals and desires to yourself. voice it all out! If you tell people what you’re trying to accomplish, they will most likely support you and give you new ideas. Sometimes mother does know best!
不要将目标和愿望藏在心里。讲出来吧！如果你把目标告诉别人，他们很可能会支持你并给你出主意。有时别人确实知道什么才最好！

7. Stay positive.
保持积极

Life doesn’t always go how you want it. Don’t feel dismay as your plans stray. Take control. Instead of freaking out, try your best to roll with the changes. You will get there someday. You’re just taking a little detour. Sometimes a positive attitude is all you need to keep going.
生活并不总是如你所愿。就算计划泡汤也不要沮丧。要稳住。不要惊慌失措，而应努力顺应变化。总有一天你会实现目标的。只是目前遇到一点挫折罢了。有时积极心态才是你最需要坚持的。