关于年轻人应该如何生活的10个建议

6. You may ignore the opposite sex until you are 20.
在20岁之前，你完全可以忽视异性。

At the very least don’t feel bad if you don’t have a girlfriend/boyfriend before age 20. You’re not “missing out” — in the grand scheme of things, it’s not very important.
至少，在你20岁之前不要因为没有女朋友或男朋友而心情不好。你并没有”错过机会“——在庞大的人生计划中，这并不是非常重要。

7. Try to work hard to get into college.
努力学习进入大学。

In high school, try to get all A’s — even when the class is unpleasant.
上高中时，努力每个科目都拿到A——即使这堂课不是那么让人愉快。

University is such a formative experience, you’ll make lifelong friends and business partners, and learn a ton about yourself.
大学是一段有重大影响的形成经历，你会结交一辈子的朋友和商业伙伴，而且深入了解自己。

You’ll want to do this at the best possible school you can get into.
你当然会希望在你所能进入的最好的大学里完成这些事。

8. Don’t worry about your grades once you got into college.
进入大学后就不要太在乎成绩了。

Once in college, don’t worry about grades (caveat: unless you plan to go to grad school, especially law or PhD programs, or apply for a competitive job).
一旦进入大学后，不要为成绩操心了（警告：除非你想读研，特别是法律专业或者想读博，再或者你想应聘一份竞争激烈的工作）。

Optimize for learning and personal happiness.
充分追求知识和个人幸福。

Find time for side projects.
为业余活动腾出时间。

9. Be genuine. Be nice.
真诚。友好。

Being a generally nice person will make you so many awesome lifelong friends.
做一个大方友好的人可以让你结交到许多很棒的终生挚友。

Being genuine is freeing since you can just be yourself with everyone you know — you won’t have to worry about keeping lies straight in your head.
真诚就是自由，因为这样你能在所有认识的人面前做真实的自己——不需要因为脑中藏着谎言而担心。

10. Learn to delay gratification.
学会推迟享受。

Ability to delay gratification predicts future success.
推迟享受的能力预示着未来的成功。

Those who succumb to pressures and do what’s immediately satisfying miss out on later satisfaction.
那些向压力投降而享受片刻的欢愉的人，错过了享受以后的满足的机会。

Kids in high school who partied every night are bagging groceries at Safeway now, while those who delayed that “fun” for just a few more years get to work at their dream job for the rest of their lives.
那些在高中夜夜聚会的孩子们现在在西夫韦超市整理杂货，而那些推迟了不过几年“享受”的孩子可以在余下的人生里从事着他们梦想的工作。