比化妆更美：女性要提高7大魅力

Many women think that the key to beauty lies in the bottom of their makeup bag. There are a million and one reasons why women believe this: they’re judged on their appearance, pop culture and mass media support those judgements, and big business makes its money off shamelessly promoting the before and after effects of their miraculous products. The truth is, being beautiful doesn’t come from a lipstick tube, mascara wand, or blush brush. The following seven factors create a more lasting impression than any amount of makeup ever could:
大部分女人都觉得美丽的关键取决于化妆包。成百万的理由中有一个就足以让她们坚信不疑：这是个看脸的社会，流行文化和大众传媒支持看脸，而那些大企业也无耻地在化妆品上涨价谋利。事实上，变漂亮不仅仅是涂个口红刷上睫毛弄个腮红那般简单。下面七个做法能比任何妆容提供更长久的美丽哦：

1. Her passions
激情

A woman who is without passion is one dull woman. At times life can feel like a Mack truck, ready to roll over us all at a moment’s notice. It’s hard for a woman to slow down and take time to do the things that truly bring her joy, but when she neglects the part of herself that ignites her, then she is living a passionless existence.
没有激情的女人毫无魅力可言。有时生命就像一辆大卡车，时刻准备着一个不留神碾压我们一下。让女人放下脚步花些时间来真正享受点什么非常困难，但如果她完全忽视能激起自己激情的部分，那么生活也就顿时索然无味了。

A woman who takes the time to follow her passions, whatever they may be, understands that life is too precious to speed along without enjoying the ride. A woman who enjoys all that life has to offer, not just her partner or her relationships, is a woman who others admire. Why? Because passion is contagious. Watching someone pursue her dreams is just about the most beautiful experience human beings can have.
不管怎样，都要知道生命如此宝贵我们不能一味前进忽视欣赏路边的风景。那种享受生活带来一切、不仅仅是爱人或感情的女人，才是让大家所艳羡的。为什么？因为这种激情会传染。看着别人追求自己的梦想也许是人生最美丽的场景吧。

2. Her compassion
体贴

A cold-hearted woman may love herself, but who loves her back? Think about this. If a woman is incapable of feeling for others, who will feel for her? Compassion, whether one is a mother, lover, colleague, mentor, or friend, is the adhesive glue that holds relationships together. Though self-absorbed celebrities are splayed over the front covers of the magazine rack, most men don’t find narcissists all that appealing.
冷酷的女人也许只爱自己，那么谁又会爱她呢？想想吧，如果一个女人无法体会别人的感受，那么谁会去体贴她？体贴，不管是母亲，爱人，同事，导师或是朋友，都是牢牢把关系黏在一起的胶水。尽管那些自我陶醉的名人们频繁出现在杂志封面，大部分男人也不会觉得她们有多迷人。

The reality is, if a woman loves herself more than she is capable of loving another, the only beauty she can boast of having is skin deep. A woman who understands how to give and receive love is much more desirable than a woman who has none to spare.
事实上如果一个女人爱自己多过于爱别人，那么她所拥有的美丽也是肤浅的。一个懂得如何给予和接受爱的女人远比只知道爱自己的女人美丽的多。

3. Her mind
思想

There is a popular myth in our culture that a beautiful woman isn’t smart. In fact, this stereotype condemns women in two ways because the implication is that smart women aren’t beautiful. This is a lose-lose scenario. If a woman looks too appealing then she can’t have anything going on upstairs, and if she “has her nose in a book” then she can’t be a looker.
似乎我们总觉得聪明女人比较笨。实际上，这句话从两个方面批判了女人，隐含的意思莫过于，聪明的女人都不漂亮。这是一个双输的场景：如果一个女人看起来非常美，那么她就不能有什么拿得上台面的才华，如果她“腹有诗书”那么就不会好看到哪里去。

A woman who doesn’t take time to cultivate her mind is like a writer who never reads books. Neglecting one’s intellect is similar to shouting, “I don’t need to understand the world — the world needs to understand me!” Life doesn’t work like this. The pursuit of knowledge and truth is not only attractive, but essential to our existence. Knowledge is empowerment and empowerment is sexy.
不愿意花时间培养思想的女人就好比从不看书的作家。忽视一个人的智慧就好比大喊“我不需要理解这个世界-这个世界需要来理解我！”生活不是这样的。对知识和真理的追求不仅有吸引力还对我们自身至关重要。知识就是力量，这股力量极其性感。