外媒看中国：中国女友最爱吐槽十句话

Chinese women who are dating non-Chinese guys often express various issues which displease them – and the issues are mostly due to cultural differences. One of our forum readers sent us a list of what he considers the ten most common complaints of Chinese girlfriends.
那些和非华裔的男生交往的华人女孩常常会对各种事情吐槽，让她们的男友感到郁闷——她们吐槽的原因往往是出于文化差异。一位读者向我们的网络论坛寄了一份清单，列举了他认为中国女友最爱吐槽的十句话。

1. You don't carry my handbag!
你不帮我拎包！

Most foreign boyfriends believe that carrying a handbag of a girlfriend is basically the opposite of manliness. But this is a very common demand of Chinese girlfriends. Chinese girls usually carry useless and unnecessary stuff in their bags.
大多数的外籍男孩都相信，为自己的女朋友拎包是完全有违男士作风的行为。然而中国女友却常常要求他们这样做。中国的女孩子们喜欢在她们的包里放上各种用不上，也没必要带着的东西。

2. You don't text or call me three times a day!
你没有一天三遍给我发短信或者打电话！

Chinese girlfriends usually demand that you stay in contact with them during the day and show that you care for them by calling or sending them text messages at least two or three times a day.
中国的女友常常要求你必须每天与她保持联系，还要每天给她打两三个电话或者发两三个短信，以表示你对她的关心。

3. You don't meet me often!
你和我见面的时间太少！

If you don't visit or meet your girlfriend often she will call you selfish and this is a word Chinese girls use if you don't do something they want. However, for foreigners this word does not seem so strong and they consider it quite normal to be called selfish.
如果你不常常去女朋友家串门或者约她见面，她就会说你自私——如果你不按她的要求做某件事，她就会用这个词来指责你。可是，在外国人看来，这个词似乎无关痛痒，他们认为自私是很正常的。

4. Give less time to your friends!
少花点时间陪你的哥们！

Sometimes, Chinese girls will complain that they don't like your friends, but this is not exactly true: They just want the guy to spend less time with his friends and more with them.
有的时候，中国女孩会抱怨说她不喜欢你的哥们儿，但这并不是她真正的想法：她只是想要男友少花点时间陪自己的朋友，多花点时间陪自己。

5. Why don't you take me to the bar?
你为什么不带我一起去酒吧呢？

She will often complain that you don't take her when you go out to a bar and she will accuse you of not taking her because of various reasons.
她会常常抱怨说，你去酒吧喝酒的时候没有带她一起去，她会以各种理由指责你不带她一起去。