男人应该如何接近女人,千万不要吹口哨了

There's a huge difference between harassing a woman on the street with catcalls and actually trying to have a conversation with her. In case you fellas do want to speak with a woman, her are a few rules:
在大街上吹口哨骚扰一个姑娘与真正想与姑娘交谈有着巨大的差别，你们这些家伙如果真想和一个姑娘交谈，要遵循这些规则：

1. Speak "to" her, not "at" her.
“与”她说话，而不是“对着”她说话。

Whistles, shouts, hoots, hollers, kissing and animal sounds may help you hail a cab, but if you do it to a woman you don't know, it's harassment.
口哨、叫喊、高声大笑、嘟嘟囔囔、飞吻和学狗叫也许会帮助你叫辆出租车，如果你用在姑娘身上，你要知道这就是骚扰。

2. Start a conversation "with" her, not "about" her.
“和”她交谈，而不是对她“评头论足”。

Talk about the weather, the day, the book she's reading, because then it is a conversation. Do not talk about her hair, her smile, her outfit, her legs, her booty or her appearance, because that's harassment.
谈论天气、当天和她在看的书，因为这之后就会有更深的交流。不要谈论她的头发，她的微笑，她的服装，她的腿，她的臀部或她的外貌，因为这是骚扰。

3. If she walks away do not follow her.
如果她走开了，不要跟踪她。

If she ignores you, drops eye contact or keeps walking -- just leave her alone. If you start following her, you aren't complimenting her, you are stalking her.
如果她没有搭理你，不再看你或径直走开，就这样让她去吧。如果你还紧追不舍，那就不是在恭维她，而是在跟踪她。

At the end of the day, if you want to connect with a woman, all you need to do is smile. There's no need to say anything. That's all it takes. Look her in the eyes and smile. She'll likely smile back. That's it. If she wants to say hello, I'm sure she will. If she doesn't, just let her be.
在白昼即将结束时，如果你想结识一位姑娘，只需微笑就够了。不用说一个字。看着她的眼睛，面带微笑。她有可能以微笑回报。就是这样。如果她想打招呼，我肯定她会的。如果她不想，就让她走吧。

And speaking of eye contact, look at her eyes, because when you stare at her chest, her butt, her private area or do the top-to-bottom scan, it makes her feel extremely uncomfortable. Women walking on a sidewalk are not walking on a catwalk, and you're not a judge on America's Top Model, so stop acting like one.
说起眼神交流，要看着她的眼睛，因为当你看着她的胸部，她的臀部，她的隐私部位或者从头到脚打量，会让她觉得极度不自在。走在人行道上的姑娘不是在走猫步，你不是在评论一个美国顶级模特，所有不要这么做。