千万不要对男人说这些话

Things You Should Never Say to Men 

千万不要对男人说这些话 

YOU ARE A MAMA'S BOY 

你就是个妈宝男 

Dating a "mama's boy" is always hard, but if you love your man and want to spend your life with him, you should never say that he is a "mama's boy." Accept this fact and don't try to change him. If your man is a "mama's boy" in his 20s, he will be "mama's boy" in his 40s too. Are you ready for it? If yes, then love and appreciate his mom more than your mom, and he will love you till the end of his life. 

与妈宝男约会是件很辛苦的事情，但如果你爱他并希望和他共度余生，那一定不要对他说这句话。接受这一事实，不要试图改变他。如果他在20多岁时是妈宝男，那么即便到了40岁，他也仍旧是个妈宝男。你准备好了吗？如果你已经做好准备，那就爱他的妈妈胜过爱自己的妈妈，他也会一直爱你，直到生命的尽头。 

Personally I avoid this type of man because any wrong word about him or his mother can ruin your relationship in a jiff. This is a lesson I learned from my own experience. 

就个人而言，我会尽量避开这类男人，因为只要说错一句关于他或者他母亲的话都可能葬送这段感情，这也是我个人的“血泪感情史”。 

TELL ME MORE ABOUT YOUR EX 

多讲讲你的前任吧 

Although we know that we shouldn't dwell on past relationships, it's tempting to know more details about your boyfriend's ex. Avoid talks about exes, especially about intimate details. If you have a crush on a guy, but he doesn't show any signs he likes you, or he has a girlfriend, don't ask him if he slept with her. 

虽然我们都知道，纠结于过去的感情不是件好事，但却克制不住地想要了解现男友的前女友。避开前任话题，尤其是关于亲密关系的讨论。如果你喜欢这个男人，但他并没有表现出喜欢你的迹象，或者他已经有女朋友了，千万不要问他是不是已经和女朋友睡过了。 

You will never win his heart with this question, as well as you will never improve your relationship when you know about your partner's exes. 

如果问了这个问题，你就再也不会俘获他的心了。此外，当你对另一半的前任有了详细了解后，这并不利于你们的感情发展。

LOOK THAT GIRL LOOKS SO FABULOUS! 

快看，那妹子真好看！

This sentence ruined many relationships. While it seems to be so simple and common, if you tell it to your partner and he will say "yes" or "fantastic" or something like that, chances are you will get jealous and it may lead to a fight. You probably start asking questions like, "Is she more beautiful than me?" or "Would you like to date her?" 

这句话毁了很多恋情。虽然这句话看似简单平常，但如果你说了这句话后，另一半回应道“的确挺好看的”等诸如此类的评价，那你很有可能产生嫉妒心理，从而引发争吵。你可能会接着问，“她有我好看吗”或者“难道你想和她约会？” 

First, you may say that you're just curious and you simply want to know his thought. But if he says "yes," it will be the end of the world. If he says "no," you will think that he's trying to hide the truth from you, and it will be the end of the world as well. Ladies, it's a sure sign of low self-esteem. 

一开始你可能只是出于好奇说了这句话，也许你只是单纯地想要知道他的想法。但如果他说“是挺好看的”，那可就是世界末日了。如果他说“我觉得不好看”，你就会觉得他在说谎，这也是世界末日。女士们，这可是自卑的迹象啊。