一定要背的英语专四作文55：相互理解

一定要背的英语专四作文55：相互理解(mp3+lrc) 

专四题目：相互理解

In a pluralistic society we attach great importance to interpersonal relationships, cooperation and tolerance. However, distinctions between relationships are very often ill-defined, which can lead to considerable misunderstandings and interpersonal conflicts.Suggest ONE way in which misunderstandings can be averted?

专四范文：

Respect.One Another's Differences

We hear, but we don't listen. We don't absorb the points being made. What causes this breakdown in communication? It's simply because we have different backgrounds, experiences, and histories. To counter and prevent misunderstanding we need to respect each other's differences.

Firstly, our need to be understood and appreciated should be based on the knowledge of other people's differences. We have different points of view because of our different backgrounds. When you feel yourself disagreeing with someone, ask yourself how his world view differs from yours. Puffing yourself in his shoes and trying to understand his point of view, you may be surprised to learn you are in complete agreement. Secondly, the best way to get others to respect your beliefs is by respecting theirs. You may understand their point but still disagree with it. If you opinion is different, of course, you want others to respect your right to disagree. Often disagreements arise because we focus on the words being used instead of focusing on the speaker. Although we understand these words, we interpret them differently. So it is useful trying to understand and respect the person.

To conclude, the way we view the world and interpret events differs. These differences easily lead to conflicts. The first step toward eliminating misunderstanding is to respect other people's differences and beliefs. (220 words)

更多专四作文精彩句子：

1.We can almost end misunderstanding if we empty our minds of biases, preconceptions,arrogance,narrow-mindedness,and stereotyping
如果我们能够消除偏见、先入之见、傲慢、狭隘和模式化的思想，我们几乎就能消除误会。

2.AS long as we realize that two monologues do not make a dialogue, and communication does not mean others must agree with us,we should do all right.
只要我们明白两个独白不能组成一个对话，明白交流并不意味着别人一定要同意我们的观点，我们就能做好。

3.Communicate with brevity and in generic terms in order to allow the recipient to fill in the positive or negative touch of the message. You job is to predict the best moment for the message to arrive.
交流时应该尽量使用简洁易懂的语言，达样可以让听话人感受到你所传达的信息里的积极或消极色彩。你的任务是决定应该在什么时候传达你要表达的信息。

4.Letting the recipient fill in his expectation is the smarter choice, leading to less arguments and ultimately eliminating fights over conflicting perceptions.
满足听话人的预期是比较聪明的做法，这样可以减少争论，最终会消除因为观点不同引发的争吵。

5.Reiterating endlessly is what most people do most of the time only to run into even more arguments.
大多数时候很多人会不停地重复自己的观点，这样只会导致更多的争论。