自信的你容易在职场获得成功

开始影响你的环境

* Move around as though you're confident - and this goes for standing and sitting also. You'll feel confident as a result - it's that simple, but our minds can get in the way. Ignore your mind for a while. We are psycho-physical beings. If we change our physical behavior we change our mindset; if we change our mindset we can change our behavior.

* 到处转转，好像你很自信的样子（站立或坐着也行）。结果你会感受到自信——就是这么简单，但是我们的想法却会成为障碍。先不要管想法。我们是有心理活动的生命存在。如果改变身体行为，我们也会改变思维方式；如果我们改变思维方式，我们也能改变行为。

* Learn to listen. Nod and smile, question and encourage. Try to actually find out if this energy-taking person you find so hard to deal with has something to say - you might be pleasantly surprised. Also, if you give an example of how to do something well, others may be encouraged to follow your example.

* 学会倾听。 点头、微笑，询问、鼓励。试着找出这位难以应对的精力吸食者究竟有什么要说——也许你会感到惊喜。而且，如果你做出表率, 把事情做好，别人也许会受到鼓舞、向你学习。

When we find ourselves in a work environment that is predominantly and increasingly one of 'positive infection', this will lead to a general mood of confidence. Individual and group performance, and therefore productivity, will all improve.

当我们身处的工作环境越来越积极，就会总体上产生一种自信情绪。个人和团队的表现，乃至整个生产力都将得到提升。

In short, a confident company is a successful company. And companies are made up of every person that works there - so everybody's confidence is important to the work environment. Our work space is a constant bombardment of influences, both positive and negative from the physical environment, the people in it and our own self-confidence.

简而言之，自信造就成功的公司。因为公司由每个员工组成——所以每个人的自信对工作环境都很重要。我们的工作空间不断受到各种因素的影响，即有好的也有坏的。这些影响来自实际环境、环境中的每个人以及我们的自信。

Be aware of this and remember that it's your responsibility to develop your confidence at work, otherwise you run the risk of becoming the energy-draining 'life taker' that forces people to flee to the nearest exit when you pass by.

要知道和记住，在工作中培养自信是你自己的责任，否则你就可能会成为一位精力耗竭的“生命掠夺者”，让人避之不及。