托福口语范文:朋友失望时你如何回应
Describe a time when a friend disappointed you and how did you respond to that?
Talk about a period of time when one of your friends disappointed you.
Describe the event that disappointed you and how you reacted to it.
Well, frankly, people get disappointed since we all have expectation for our friends. I usually use my emotional intelligence to analyze the situation, and solve the conflict accordingly. For example, I once argued about which movie to watch with my friend, and I wanted to watch action movie, however, my friend preferred comedy. After that, I get angry and really disappointed, but later, I realized the real cause of my anger was not about which movie to watch, and the real cause was that I have lots assignment due next week, and I couldn't stand that pressure, so I apologized to my friend, and we are still friends now
It’s when I was in my childhood when I lived with my Grandma and one of my cousins called Kang. We were like a pair of shoe. We go everywhere together before I turned 16. One day we had an argument about who to get in to house from the tiny gap in between the front door since that our grandma was out in the center of the town playing card games and we were looking for extra glass balls to play with our friends. I was persuades by him to do the task which turned to be an extremely difficult thing to do. I freaked out when stuck in the gap. And we were scolded by doing that. I was treating him as a big brother and was disappointed by him that he chose me to do this and though it seems stupid to keep that in mind.
Well I would like to talk about one experience happened last week. My friend Daniel invited me to dinner together in a new restaurant. After we sat down, he kept answering phone calls and was busy sending numerous text messages for like 40 minute. I felt irritated, sitting there like an idiot! So I told him how I felt, totally ignored, disrespected and belittled. He apologized to me and said there were some emergent situations popping up in his company. He was obviously distracted and absent-minded. We finished our dinner in silence; that was a really unpleasant memory.
Talking about a disappointing experience, one gloomy story came to my mind. It was in my junior school years. You know, I finished my primary school in Beijing, and continued my study back in my hometown, Inner Mongolia, which locates in northern China. I have always felt lucky to have 4 besties by then. But it was not until graduation did I find out one of these friends had never stopped speaking ill of me! She would call me a “city slicker” and managed to keep my other friends from getting too close to me. Surely, I felt really upset when I found out about this back-stabbing, but I told myself it was not up to me to decide what people can tell. So I never tried to explain.
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