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Success: 10 Easy Success Tips To Help You Achieve Your Ambitions In Life
2008-03-20来源:
I want to wish you good health, long life, success and Happiness.Most people are capable of setting up goals for them to achieve.That is the easy part.The difficult part is in the implementation of those goals.Psychologists, Janet Polivy and Peter Herman, reported that 25% of new year's resolutions will be abandoned in the first 15 weeks; the average number of times an individual makes a new year's resolution is 10, and that those whose resolutions lasted for about 6 months or more often tried 5 or 6 times before they succeeded.For many years until recently, I was unable to keep any of my new year's resolutions. So, my friend, you're not alone.This caused a lot of hardship in my life. I had many personal bad habits I wanted to get rid of, but due to lack of self-discipline and control, I was unable to do so.Since 3 years ago, my life has changed and improved because of a few strategies I developed that helped me kick my bad habits, improve myself and achieve my ambitions in life.What is your new year's resolution?Do you want to lose weight?Do you want to stop smoking?Do you want to stop drinking?Do you want to kick your drug habit?Do you want to stop gambling?Do you want to make three times more money this year?Whatever your resolutions and goals may be, you can succeed if you adopt a few easy strategies I want to reveal.Permit me to share with you 10 of these easy tips that have helped me keep my new year's resolutions and make them work for me.(1) Be reasonableKnow your weaknesses, define them and commit to improving yourself. Do all that is reasonable and legal to kick your bad habits and change your life for the better.Have reasonable expectations.For example if you're 100Ibs overweight, it will be unreasonable to expect to lose all of it in a week!However, if you make a commitment to engage in more physical exercises, eat healthy food and allow about 3 months, then that will be reasonable and you may succeed.I was 100 Ibs overweight for many years, but by being reasonable, I have lost all the extra weight!Make a resolution because it is right for you and will help you succeed in life and not because you want to please others or because it is fashionable.You can't please anyone until you've pleased yourself.Set priorities. Start with small goals and resolutions and work your way up to the jumbo ones.(2) Don't bite more than you can chewTake it easy on yourself. You're human, not a machine. Don't make too many resolutions, which will then be hard for you to keep and cause you to fail and feel disappointed and hopeless.Make about 2-3 resolutions at a time. Be very clear about the bad habits that you wish to kick or goals that you desire to achieve.Don't make a decision to kick a habit unless you're ready for it.For example some people who have been smoking or drinking alcohol for many years have noticed that each time they decided to quit they have failed.The reason is that they may not be physically or mentally ready yet to stop.When you smoke cigarettes and drink alcohol, there are many biological and chemical activities involved.The cells and organs in your body change and become dependent on the chemicals in the cigarettes (nicotine) and alcohol.Therefore even though you have realized the dangers of smoking or drinking, you may not be able to suddenly wake up from sleep and decide to stop.Those cells and organs in your body may still continue to need the chemicals.This is the cause of the
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