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怎样成为最有魅力的人?
Smile more, no matter how ugly your teeth are. I'm not kidding about this one. It's not all about the teeth. If you are smiling genuinely, you can draw everyone for 100 meters around to you.
Keep your lips smooth
Moisturize your lips. It's hard to even look someone in the face if their lips are cracked and dry. And it's hard to believe that they really care about anything. That's just the way we humans think. So for cryin' out loud carry around a tube of chap stick around with you ... they're only like a buck a pop, and they'll last you a while even if you put it on as regularly as I am eluding to! And no, women, it's not necessarily about the lipstick (although, yes, there is a time and place for it) ... it's more about the simple, natural beauty of supple lips. Caution! Don't put so much on that it's just scary, however. But I didn't need to tell you that, right?
Wear what fits
Wear clothing that fits you. Too tight, people are distracted. Too loose, you just look sloppy. For women, wearing tight pants or shirts is not attractive. If you've got it, don't flaunt it - it ruins it for your man (there are a few things best left to the imagination, honey). Loose, slightly clingy or drapey things are best, or else things that just fit you and your shape well but not tight. Men, us women with taste and style really don't know why some guys think their pants sagging down is somehow attractive. It's not! And neither is huge, wide leg pants. Both just tell us you don't really care. You're following the crowd. Wear things that fit you nicely, please . . . And for goodness sake, both sexes, stay away from logos and printed shirts! Most people you may ask do not find this attractive. Stop being some company's billboard, and show us you.
Be interested in other man
Be interested in the other person. Again, ask them questions. Don't talk about yourself ... remove attention from yourself. If you are genuinely interested in the person, it will come across. And if you want to talk about yourself, you'll find that putting the other person first actually opens him up to return the favor and ask you questions. See how fun this is?
Put away inhibitions
Ok, there is a time and a place to play shy. But, for the most part, putting away inhibitions makes people feel comfortable around you. Even if you go ahead and do something and totally mess it up, it really makes everyone comfortable around you and want to be around you. People are fragile, especially those who don't put into practice what I'm saying in this article. And so that means they need someone like you to lean on.
So, yes it is possible to be the most attractive person in the world. If you've noticed the ring throughout the article, it has a lot to do with just being confident in who you are. Nobody needs to look like Tom Cruise or Will Smith or their wives, or anyone else for that matter. Every person, of every race, of every nationality, of every background, can be the most attractive person in the world .
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