专家支招:老公爱出轨怎么办?

　　Worried your man may be straying? Here, with the help of relationship experts, we reveal the tell-tale signs. Your man is more likely to cheat if... Know the signs: Certain men are more likely to be unfaithful according to relationship experts

　　担心老公出轨？担心男友劈腿？如何才能正确判断？别请教爱情专家了，这里的12个“防范劈腿秘笈”可以手把手教你如何保护好你的爱情，进行最合理的“婚姻保卫战”。

　　1. You earn more than him

　　第一，挣得比他多。

　　It will dent his ego, but could also harm your ­relationship if you are one of the 2.7?million British women who earn more than their man. A 2010 study suggested men who are ­dependent on their female partners for income were five times more likely to cheat than those who contributed equally。

　　或许在当今的职场中，女人以能和男人“同工同酬”甚至比男人赚得多为荣，但是专家证实男人其实害怕另一半比他们赚得多。这个理论会“殃及”英国270万事业比男人成功的女强人啊。数据统计，“吃软饭”的男人出轨机率是普通男人的5倍。

　　2. He works long hours

　　第二，他用在工作上的时间很长。

　　If your ­partner works such long hous that he spends less than 10 per cent of his time with you, then there’s a one in ten chance that he (or you) will be unfaithful。

　　如果你的另一半用在工作上的时间太长，而放在你身上的时间还不到10%，那么你真的要小心了。专家说，他们出轨的机率占到10%。

　　3. You live together before getting ­married

　　第三，未婚先同居

　　Many believe living together before getting hitched allows couples to get used to each other’s idiosyncrasies, paving the way for a smooth married life. But a Relate survey suggested those who live together but don’t marry are up to 40 per cent more likely to be unfaithful than those who tie the knot。

　　不管在电影《非诚勿扰2》中葛优以及舒淇表演的“试婚”还是别的什么，虽然有人说同居可以提前适应对方的生活习惯，看看能不能一辈子在一起。然而专家称，婚前同居男女中，有40%的男性对另一半不忠。

　　4. His father or brother has had an affair

　　第四，对方父亲或者兄弟有外遇行为

　　Scientists have ­uncovered a genetic link to infidelity. Two years ago, a study at the Karolinska ­Institute, in Stockholm, showed men who inherit a genetic variant that affects an important attachment ­hormone called vasopressin, are more likely to have weaker relationships and marital problems, and less likely to be married。

　　不良的行为示范可以让你的另一半也变坏呢，科学家检测出“偷情基因”，实验中发现“共同享有”这种基因的男性更容易叛变。

　　5. He's been married before (but you haven't)

　　第五，有过婚史的男人，但女性未婚

　　A paper published in the European Journal of Operational Research in 2009 tracked 1,000 couples who were either married or in serious relationships over five years. Researchers found a ­previous divorce ­lessened the chances of a relationship surviving, although this was less marked when both partners had been divorced before。

　　和有婚史的男人在一起，他们容易再一次对婚姻做出不忠行为。专家还分析，如果男女双方都有过婚史，那重新结合后相互做出不忠行为的可能性会稍微低些。