破坏婚姻关系的原因有哪些?

The research also revealed marriage to be more boring than dating – and not just because of the amount of time spent together.
同时，这项研究也表明，比起恋爱约会关系，婚姻关系无聊得多，但这并非是因为两人在一起的时间长短有别

Researcher Beverley Fehr, of the University of Winnipeg in Canada, said: ‘Those who are dating might experience less boredom because they can more readily extricate themselves from a relationship once boredom sets in.’
来自加拿大温尼伯大学的研究院Beverley Fehr说：“正在恋爱中的男女很少感到无聊，那是因为他们可以轻而易举地摆脱一段没有意思的恋爱关系。”

Writing in the journal Personal Relationships, Professor Fehr added: ‘If a close relationships researcher were to approach people on the street and ask, “What is the major obstacle to lasting love?”, we suspect that the most frequent answers would be “conflict”, “betrayal”, “selfishness” and the like.
Fehr博士还表示，“当一个密切关系方面研究员在街头做随即调查时，一般会问受访者‘你认为影响看清关系健康长久发展的主要障碍是什么？’，一般我们会猜想答案可能是‘分歧冲突’、‘背叛’、‘自私’等等类似的理由。”

‘We would be quite surprised if anyone replied “boredom” and yet that may be the correct answer – or at least one correct answer.’
“所以，当我们得出‘无聊’才是‘婚姻杀手’的时候都非常惊讶，或是婚姻关系走到尽头的最准前兆，至少是其中之一。”

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