情感话题:考研后的爱情

　
　　Follow your heart 追随真心
　　
　　Liu Qiang, of the Henan University student affairs office, says that a change in career or study can be a major threat to any relationship.
   来自河南大学学生处的刘强（音译）表示，对于所有恋人来说，学业或工作上的转变都会对他们的情感构成很大的威胁。
　　
　　“When one partner is looking toward a new horizon, there will be conflict if the other puts their attention elsewhere,” says Liu. “This is a common problem – especially when the relationship is not mature.”
    刘强说：“当一方向往新世界时，如果另一半心有旁骛，那么矛盾就会产生。这是一个普遍存在的问题，尤其当这段感情还未成熟的时候。”
　　
　　Yang says he cannot forgive his girlfriend for what she has done to him, but, according to Liu, he should go a little easier on his ex.
    杨牟说，对于女朋友对自己所做的一切，他无法释怀。但刘强却表示，杨牟应该对前女友宽容一些。
　　　　
　　“Graduation can be hard – it’s not a sin for someone to think about him or herself a bit more,” says Liu. He recommends that all student couples to bear one thing in mind: “Love is never a matter of calculation; sometimes following your instincts will lead you to the right answer.”
      刘强说：“毕业过程是艰难的；一些人可能会稍有私心，但这也并非十恶不赦。”另外，他也奉劝学生情侣们要切记：“爱情并不是一道算术题；有时追随直觉，你会得到正确答案的。”