恋爱第一次约会前要搞清楚的事情

1 为什么要恋爱

Since this would be your first date, at least have good reasons why you want to meet or see someone. This would be the foundation of a successful date whether it would push through or if there would be follow-ups afterwards. If your intention is no clear, I am telling you that would be a disaster. So if you are not yet ready, forget it and sweat yourself out on other important things.
因为这是你们的第一次约会，所以在约会之前你要搞清楚和Ta约会的原因。不论之后恋情如何发展，这是一段成功恋情最基本的要素。如果你不确定自己恋爱的原因的话，我可以告诉你，接下来发生的事情对你来说绝对是灾难。所以如果你还没有准备好，那么就请放弃这个念头，把生活重心放到其他更要的事情上吧。