恋爱第一次约会前要搞清楚的事情

This is connected to number 3. There are wrong questions, which are being asked that could be sensitive or might offend the person.This actually happens if we make ourselves too comfortable upon facing them where a disaster on a date itself happens. Relax and be yourself but do not be too close right away.
这一点和刚才所说的第三点是有联系的。有些问题问出来之后会戳到人家敏感点，甚至会冒犯人家。当你面对对方感觉过分放松的时候，就很可能是犯这种错误的时候。所以当你面对对方的时候既要放松，又不可过分放松。