人人都该掌握的十大社交技巧

We’ve all watched them, in wonder: the happy-go-skippy social butterflies who are on everyone's must-invite guest list. They love the world and the world loves them back. What's their terrible secret?
我们都见过这样一些让人惊叹的家伙：他们是嗨爆全场的交际达人，是所有party的座上客。他们对世界充满热爱，而世界也回报他们很多爱。那么他们的社交秘诀是什么呢？

Bust a Mood
掩饰不良情绪

To have fun, you've got to be fun. Sure, sometimes we are just not "in the mood" to be social, but I know you know how to fake it. And here's the weird part: Scientific research proves that putting a smile on your face will actually conjure the desire to feel like smiling. (And we know that smiling, like yawning, is contagious, so do it.)
要想出去找乐趣，你必须是一个有乐趣的人。当然，有时候你没什么心情忙于社交，但我想你肯定知道该怎么掩饰自己的心情。科学研究有一个奇怪的发现：你强行挤出的笑脸真的会让你产生想要微笑的渴望。（我们都知道，微笑啊打哈欠啊什么的是会传染的，所以就算是挤也挤出一个微笑来吧。）

Create a Memory
打造一段回忆

Do you have "blank canvas" jitters when walking into a party? So hide behind a camera. Taking snapshots is one of the quickest icebreakers in a social situation. And the cool part is distributing your catch later. Photos are the most cherished heirlooms, and with digital photography, you've got a billion chances to get the most amazing shot. The key is to avoid being a nudge, constantly telling everyone to "get together." Just hold the camera above the crowd and snap wildly, randomly, intensely—the fun is seeing what you get when you upload the shots.
刚刚走进一场party时你是不是会觉得大脑一片空白？那就躲到镜头后面去吧。给他人拍照是社交场合打破紧张气氛最快的方法之一。向别人派发你拍的照片多酷呀。照片是最值得珍藏的宝贝，而且有了数码摄影技术，你可以进行无数次尝试来获取一张最惊艳的照片。想要拍出好照片，秘密在于千万别唠叨个没完，让大家“靠拢一点”。你只需要对着人群举起相机，带着热情，随心随机拍摄就好。当你看到自己上传的照片时，就是拍照真正的乐趣。