人人都该掌握的十大社交技巧

Claim ownership of a "specialty" you love to whip up and keep the ingredients on hand. Whether it's after the kids' baseball game or the place for the late-late, after-after party, make your address the crew's place to be (last-minute guests always welcome).
保持一项你热爱的专长，而且反复练习。不管你是在一场儿童棒球赛结束后压轴出场，还是在一场深夜party上闪亮登场，想办法在大伙儿都在的时候秀出你的专长（压轴出场的来宾总是受欢迎的）。

Introduce Yourself
介绍你自己

A sudden attack of shyness when you don't know a soul in the joint is quite possibly the most universal human experience. But walk through the door expecting to have a great time, and you will. Prep yourself for every situation by reminding yourself that something new and surprising and amazing can always happen—like falling madly in like at first sight with a new friend or simpatico business partner or finding that missing clue to some mystery of the world that you're trying to solve.
如果你不了解聚会的精髓，有可能会突然感到非常害羞。其实大多数人都遇到过这种情况。但是如果在进入这场聚会之前默默期待自己会度过一段美好的时光，那么你就会如愿。让自己做好准备迎接各种场合，提醒自己，总会有一些新奇的、惊喜的甚至惊叹的事情发生，比如说与一位新朋友或者有趣的商业伙伴一见如故，或者解开了一个你正在苦苦思索的世界难题。