人生短暂活在当下：浪费生命的8种方式

The hardest battle you’re ever going to fight is the battle to be you, just the way you are in this moment. We cannot find ourselves if we are always searching for, or morphing into, someone else. In this crazy world that’s trying to make you like everyone else, find the courage to keep being your awesome self. Be your own kind of beautiful right now, in the way only you know how.
最困难的挑战便是成为自己、此时此刻的自己。如果我们总是不停追寻他人、模仿他人，那就会迷失自己。在这个疯狂的世界，这么做无异于试图把自己变成别人的模样，然后还得拿出勇气面对真实的自我。请现在就开始做个独特美好的自己吧。

6. The picture in your head of how it’s supposed to be.
6、脑中的愿景

What often screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of how it’s supposed to be. Although every good thing has an end, in life every ending is just a new beginning. Life goes on – not always the way we had envisioned it would be, but always the way it’s supposed to be. Remember, we usually can’t choose the music life plays for us, but we can choose how we dance to it.
我们的生活往往是被我们脑中的愿景搅扰的。虽然好事终有结束之时，但在生活中，每一次结束都是新的开始。生活并不总是如我们所愿地前进，它自有其法。请记住：我们无法选择生活奏响的乐曲，但却可以选择如何舞蹈。

7. Berating yourself for not being perfect.
7、苛责自己未能至善至美

Don’t be too hard on yourself. There are plenty of people willing to do that for you. Do your best and surrender the rest. Tell yourself, “I am doing the best I can with what I have in this moment. And that is all I can expect of anyone, including me.” Love yourself and be proud of everything that you do, even your mistakes. Because even mistakes mean you’re trying.
别太苛责自己。其实有很多人愿意帮你。你只需尽力做好，其他就听天由命吧。请告诉自己：“我已经在现有能力内做到最好，这是我对所有人的全部期望——包括我自己。”请善待自己、为自己所做的一切感到自豪吧。即便是错误，也表示你曾尽力了。

8. Waiting, and then waiting some more.
8、一等再等

Stop waiting for tomorrow; you will never get today back. It doesn’t matter what you’ve done in the past. It doesn’t matter how low or unworthy you feel right now. The simple fact that you’re alive makes you worthy. Life is too short for excuses. Stop settling. Stop procrastinating. Start today by taking one courageous step forward. If you are not sure exactly which way to go, it is always wise to follow your heart.
别再等待明天了，否则你连今天都把握不住。你过去的一切都不再重要。你此刻的卑微和无价值感也不重要。事实是当下你还活着，这就足以证明你有价值。生命太短，何能嘘嗟！请别再搁浅。请别再拖延。现在就勇敢向前迈进吧。如果你还不确定该往哪个方向出发，遵从内心意愿就很不错哦！