你长大了吗？判断人真正成熟的20种表现

11. Being able to distinguish between ‘needs’ and ‘wants’.
能区分“需要”和“想要”的不同。

12. Shows confidence without being overly arrogant.
有充足的自信而又不会让人觉得傲慢。

13. Handles pressure with self composure.
能够沉着地应对压力。

14. Takes ownership and responsibility of personal actions.
能独立自立，也能对自己的事情负责。

15. Manages personal fears.
有能力客服自己的恐惧感。

16. Able to see the various shades of grey between the extremes of black and white in every situation.
能在绝对的“黑”与“白”之间看到事物的多面性。

17. Accepts negative feedback as a tool for self improvement.
勇于接受负面的反馈来促进自我提升。

18. Aware of personal insecurities and self-esteem.
理解个人的不安全感和自尊心。

19. Able to separate true love from transitory infatuation.
能区分什么是真爱，什么是转瞬即逝的迷恋。

20. Understanding that open communication is the key to progression.
明白开放式的交流才是取得提升的关键。

Above all, true adults do what they have to do when it is required of them, and they do what they want when they can. They are able to distinguish between the two and manage their time and efforts accordingly.
综上所述，真正的成年人会在责任到来之时按照要求去做，也知道什么时候才能做他们想做的事。而且他们能区分什么是该做的事，什么是想做的事，也会合理地来安排他们的时间和精力。