送同事体面好礼:不差钱,只讲心

1. Say “thank you.” Expressing gratitude to others for the things that they do for us makes them feel appreciated. That makes them more likely to do good work for us in the future. We then know we can count on them. It’s a win-win. So make a New Year’s resolution to actively thank people for a job well done – no matter how busy you may be.
1. 说“谢谢”。向他人为我们做的事表达感谢会让他们觉得被欣赏。这让他们在将来更愿意帮我们，成为我们的依靠。这是双赢的局面。所以不管你有多忙，也要在新年许下“积极感谢别人完成工作”的愿望。

2. Give out compliments. When we compliment others, we can build rapport and create a meaningful connection with them. But they won’t have this effect unless they are genuine. If we actually feel jealous, for example, our compliments will fall flat. Others will notice, through our non-verbal communication (such as a fake smile or lack of eye contact). Remember that elevating others does not mean bringing ourselves down–whether or not we are on the same team.
2. 表达赞美。当我们赞扬别人时，可以和他们建立融洽的关系和有用的联系。但切记，除非出自真心实意，不然是不会起效的。比如我们实际上很嫉妒，那赞美就达不到预期效果。别人也会通过你的非语言信号注意到（比如假笑或缺少眼神交流）你是否在真诚地表达赞美。要记住鼓舞别人并不是贬低自己——不管你们是否在同一团队中工作。

3. Celebrate successes. Take the time to learn about accomplishments and special moments. Then offer hearty congratulations. We all like to feel important.
3. 庆祝成功。花时间了解别人的成就或特殊时刻。然后真心实意地祝贺。我们都喜欢被别人认为重要。

4. Share information. Give people information that helps improve their health, finances, relationships or other areas in their lives. You will have the satisfaction of doing a good deed, and someday you may receive one in return.
4. 分享信息。给别人提供促进他们健康、财政、关系或其他方面的信息。做好事也会让你有一种满足感，而且某天你也会收到回报。

5. Offer recommendations. Putting in a good word can help people in their personal or professional lives. Be willing to recommend others, and they will likely speak highly of you, too.
5. 提供推荐。说点好话能给别人的个人或职业生活提供帮助。愿意推荐他人的话，他们对你的评价也会很高。