8个原因告诉你 你的目标为什么总是达不到？

Bad news… you aren’t going to reach your goals. Why? Unfortunately, there are many reasons. We set goals all the time. But, often, we do not reach them.
坏消息：你没达成你的目标。为什么？不幸的是原因有很多。 我们总是在设定目标，但我们却常常没达成我们的目标。

There are many reasons that goals go unfulfilled. Maybe they were never clearly defined. Maybe the discipline was not there. For many, goal setting is a never ending circle that starts, stops, and beings again.
目标没有达成存在很多原因。也许是因为目标不够清晰明确，也许是因为没有做到自律。 对很多人来说，设定目标是一个无休止循环：开始，结束，然后又是开始，结束。

To help us succeed in reaching our goals, let’s examine the reasons why many people fail at reaching them. Here are 8 Reasons That You Won’t Reach Your Goals:
为了帮我们成功实现目标，我们来检查一下很多人没达成目标的原因。这里是8个你为什么没有达成目标的原因。

1. You Don’t Have Any Goals
你没有目标

Wayne Gretsky famously said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” The same can be said of goals. You will not attain 100% of the goals you don’t set. Too many people are afraid to “set” their goals. Afraid of failing. Afraid of disappointment. Afraid of what others might think. Well, you definitely won’t complete them if you don’t try. Make a choice and set your goals. Otherwise, you will will end up wherever life takes you.
加拿大冰球明星韦恩·格雷茨基有一句著名的话：“不开枪，你就百分百浪费了子弹。” 在设定目标方面也是同理。如果你不设定目标，你百分之百不会实现目标。很多人不敢设定目标。他们害怕失败，害怕失望，害怕他人的看大。然而，如果你都不去一试的话，你注定无法实现目标。做个选择，设定目标。否则，你只能任由生活主宰你。

2. You Don’t Start
你没开始

OK, so you have a goal. Maybe it’s to lose weight. Or to learn a new skill. To get a new hobby. What have you done about it? Have you started it yet? What are you waiting for? Procrastination is responsible for the demise of many goals.
你有一个目标。比如说是减肥，或是学一项新技能，或培养一个新爱好。 那你做过些什么？你开始行动过吗？你还在等什么？拖延让很多目标落空了。

3. You Aren’t Willing to “Buy” Your Goals
你不愿意“购买”你的目标

Yes. You have to buy your goals. Why? Because every goal has a price. It has a cost. Time. Money. Sweat. Sacrifice. You will have to “pay” for your goals in some manner. If you are not willing to make the investment, then you will not reach your goals. Determine what your goal is going to cost you, and whether or not you are willing to pay the price.
是的，你要购买你的目标！为什么？因为每一个目标都有一个价码。目标是要付出代价的：时间、金钱、汗水、奉献。你必须以某些方式为你的目标“付出”点什么。如果你不愿意做出投资，那么你是无法达成你的目标。确定一下你的目标需要你付出什么代价，再确认一下你是不是愿意付出这个代价。

4. Your Goals Are Unrealistic
你的目标不切实际

Setting goals is important, but ensuring that they are possible is important too. If you set your goals impossibly high, then you are not grounded in reality. Losing 30 lbs. in 30 days is not realistic. Becoming CEO of your company in a year, probably not going to happen. Make sure that your goals are possible and that you set an adequate time frame for success.
设定目标很重要，但保证目标可行同样重要。如果你设定的目标太高而不切实际，那么你无异于在建空中楼阁。在30天里减肥30磅不现实，一年内成为你所在公司的总裁也不太可能发生。确认自己的目标是否可行，同时确保为成功实现目标也预留了充足的时间。