8个原因告诉你 你的目标为什么总是达不到？

Over half of goals will be given up within 30 days. You set your goals. You started them. And then… you gave up. You didn’t have the discipline to stay the course. Are you using life’s daily happenings as excuses? I couldn’t go to the gym today because work was too busy. I could not work on my book because I was too tired. Goals are not reached through one momentous effort. Rather, they are made in small steps over time.
超过半数的人在30天内就放弃目标了。你设定了目标。你着手去做了。然后你放弃了。你没有做到自律让自己的目标继续下去。你在用日程琐事作为借口吗？今天我不能去健身了因为工作太忙了。我看不进书了因为我太累了。只求通过一次努力是无法达成目标的。它们是通过一步一步、一次次累积完成的。

6. They Are Not “Your” Goals
它们不是“你的”目标

Why did you pick the goals you set? Is it something that you wanted to accomplish, or is it something that others wanted you to do? Something that was expected of you? If you goals are not your own, you will not have the passion and drive to complete them. Too often, we put goals are on our plate that are not our own. In these cases, we are destined for failure. Ensure that your goals align with your own values and dreams.
为什么你会选择设定这样的目标？这是你想实现的吗？或者这些是他人想要你去做的事？是别人对你的期待？如果你的目标不是你自己的，你就没有激情和动力去实现它。太多时候我们追求的不是我们自己的目标。在这种情况下，我们注定要失败。确信你的目标符合你自身的价值观和梦想。

7. You Will Fail… and You Won’t Get Back Up!
你会失败……而且你一蹶不振

No one succeeds immediately. Overnight success is a myth. Those who appear to have effortlessly succeeded have usually put in years of preparation and practice. The secret is that when you fall down… you have to get back up. You have to fall down many times before you will succeed. Skill is learned by doing.
没有人能一步登天。一夜成名是一个神话。那些看似轻轻松松就成功的人，通常是投入了好几年时间去准备和练习。 秘诀在于：当你跌倒时，你得再站起来。在你成功前，你会跌倒很多次。技能是在实践中学来的。

8. You Quit Before the Finish Line
在最后关头你退却了

Too many people stop… right before the finish. It’s almost like they don’t want to get there. They are afraid of succeeding. Often a life event is used as the reason for not finishing. Something always comes up before you finish. You get sick. An emergency occurs. Unforeseen events happen. (Life always does…) Don’t let “life” be the reason your do not attain your goal.
很多人在到达终点前的最后一刻停下来了。看起来似乎是他们不想穿越终点线。他们害怕成功。通常一件生活小事会被用来作为不完成的理由。在你完成前总会有事发生：你生病了，突发事情来了，不可预见的事情发生了。（生活总是如此……）不要让“生活”成为你没达成目标的理由。

Are you reaching your goals? Which of these is keeping you from succeeding? Are you “paying the price” for your goals, or are you simply letting life take you where it goes? Set your goals. Stay the course. Always get back up when you fail. And make sure you cross the finish line.
你达成目标了吗？在这些原因中，哪些是阻碍你成功的原因？你为你的目标付出代价了吗？或者你仅仅是让生活主宰你？设定目标。保持进度。当你失败时，振作起来。最后确信你要穿越终点线。