不做木讷宅男：吸引女人的13个聊天小诀窍

Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 13 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:
很多男人都没有学习过怎样和女人聊天。正因为如此，很多男人终其一生都对女人没有吸引力。以下是13个小贴士，让你在想吸引的女人面前不犯错误。

1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
你应该谈论和“情感”有关的话题，如童年回忆、未来志向、或者她的爱好。这样的话题能够打开她情绪的闸门。

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.
女人们喜欢有能力掌控她的男人。跟女人谈话时要掌控话题。不要等着她告诉你谈论什么。

3. Pay attention to the non-verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.
注意女人给你的非语言提示。如果你站得离她很近，说话时唾沫星横飞，或是让她在其他方面感到不自在，她会给你暗示，要注意这些提示。

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.
记住这条箴言：“幽默但不滑稽。”女人会被让她们开心的男人吸引。不要只想着说最搞笑的笑话，要多花花心思向她们展现最令人兴奋最有乐趣的事物。

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.
挑逗她。要让对话变得暧昧有趣，最简单的方法就是跟女士们调调情。回想一下当初在学校操场上是如何和女生玩的。当时吸引女生的方法现在在约会时也完全适用。

6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.
聊聊私密的话题。女人会被敢于让对话上升到个人的私密层面的男人吸引。