浪漫其实并不难：如何做一个浪漫的人？

If you love yourself, you’ll be the type of person who draws people to you. This means you’re more attractive. By being more attractive, you’re more likely to realize your attraction and act more attractive. This increases your odds of romance spurring up at any moment, no matter what your life is like.
如果你爱自己，你就是那种可以把人们吸引到你身边来的类型。这意味着你更有吸引力，这样一来你更有可能意识到自己的吸引力，而且变得更有吸引力。这会增加各种时刻浪漫发生的几率，不论你的生活怎样。

5. Be Discreet
谨慎小心

If you’re in a marriage or relationship, don’t rub it in everyone’s face. Be polite and honest when asked, and respect the boundaries of the relationship. Other than that, act normal in public. Your significant other will be more likely to get freaky when they’re comfortable. You’ll also attract other women you can either store for later if your relationship isn’t serious or use to get ahead in life, your career, etc. It’s always nice to have attractive friends to keep things interesting. Just make sure you can look yourself in the mirror.
如果你已经结婚或者正在恋爱，不要见人就秀幸福。被问起时礼貌诚实地回答，并且尊重这段关系的界线。此外，在公众场合表现地自然一些。当你的另一半感觉舒服时更有可能变得浪漫。如果你的关系不够认真或者和你的生活、事业发生冲突，你也可以吸引其他女孩留着以后交往。有一些有吸引力的朋友让生活更有趣总是好的。只是确保你要认清镜中的自己。

6. Surprise People
给他人惊喜

Everyone loves to be surprised in the right ways. Find ways to ignite a spark in the room. Keep some good dark chocolate on you at all times. If you know how to make some small craft, keep a few in a drawer in your room. If you’re not crafty, keep some cheap but tasteful jewelry in some luggage. Either way, always have something on hand to pull out spur of the moment to surprise your woman. Chicks dig surprises.
每个人都喜欢收到惊喜，只要方式正确。想办法在房间内点亮火花。随身携带一些优质的黑巧克力。如果你知道如何制作一些小玩意，在房间的抽屉里放一些。如果你不擅长手工，准备一些便宜但有品位的珠宝。不管是哪种方法，在手边准备一些东西，随时给你的另一半一个惊喜，女孩们都爱发掘惊喜。

7. Be Happy and Assertive
快乐自信

As long as you’re smiling and assertive (without being bossy), you will be in control of your life. When you’re in control of your life, you’re able to assertively get whatever you want. If you want romance, go out and create it. Life is yours for the taking.
只要你保持微笑并且自信（不是专横独断），你就会主宰你自己的生活。只要你能主宰你自己的生活，那你就肯定可以得到你想要的。如果你渴望浪漫，那就走出去，制造浪漫。生活掌握在你手中。