你做好准备了吗？结婚前要问自己的6个问题

Intelligence? Simplicity? A caring heart? A strong common interest? Is there something in him/her which genuinely complements you in ways more than one?
智慧？天真？善心？强烈的共同兴趣？他或她的身上是否存在着不止一样东西可以和你互补？

Falling in love with someone “for no particular reason” is great for the heady period of infatuation but not nearly enough for the everyday reality of marriage.
和某人“莫名其妙”地坠入爱河在疯狂的迷恋期是好的，但对于每天现实的婚姻来说就不够了。

Ask yourselves whether you admire each other for the special individuals that you are and the unique qualities that you both possess.
问问你自己，你们是否因为彼此的特别和共同拥有的特质而相互赞赏。

Marriage is a long – sometimes boring, but stable – commitment. It cannot be based on whether someone is exciting to you. It has to be about finding long-term fulfilment and happiness in the individuals that you are.
婚姻是一种长期的承诺，有时候很无趣，但是又很稳定。它并不建立在一个人是否让你兴奋的基础上。它必须在你身上找到长期的成就感和幸福感。