你做好准备了吗？结婚前要问自己的6个问题

4. Do we know how to deal with each other’s "negative" sides?
我们是否知道该如何应对对方的消极面？

You can’t live without your dogs. But your girlfriend would rather die than live with them. You’re a devil incarnate when you’re angry. You’re struggling with a bad spending habit.
没有了你的狗狗你就不能活，而你的女朋友宁愿不活了也不愿意和它们一起生活；当你愤怒时你就会变成恶魔；你正在和不好的消费习惯作斗争。

We all have our negative aspects. If you’re thinking about making a lifelong commitment to someone it’s crucial to understand and develop strategies to deal with each other’s less-than-desirable traits.
我们都有自己的缺点。如果你正在考虑向某人许下一生的承诺，那么理解并想出办法应对彼此那些不太尽如人意的特质就非常重要。

Make a conscious decision to go (or not to go) pet-less for the rest of your life for a partner who’s allergic to your pets. Make your peace with the problematic spending habits of your significant other before you decide to take the plunge.
你的另一半对你的宠物过敏，那你就得做一个清醒的决定，选择未来过（或者不过）没有宠物的生活；冷静处理不好的消费习惯，在决定冒险时想想你的另一半。

It takes time to understand and deal with things we don’t like about our partners. And until and unless you’ve spent that time, you’re not ready to make a decision on marriage.
理解并应对那些另一半身上我们不喜欢的东西是需要时间的。除非你付出了这个时间，否则你就还没有做好准备要结婚。