如何得到你想要的一切?

Getting what you want in your career and in life isn't as difficult as it may seem. I mean it.
在你的事业和生活中得到你想要的并不像看起来那么困难。我说真的。

Here's a sneak peak at how you can be successful in everything you do:
这里来一窥究竟如何在你所做的一切事情上获得成功：

Listen First and Never Stop Listening

Listening is the single-most important skill in professional and personal relationships. Most people have their own agenda and are too busy talking (or waiting to talk) to listen to you. If you, unlike most people, can truly listen with empathy, then people will like you--and eventually help you get what you want.
首先要倾听，永远不要停止倾听

在职业和个人关系上倾听是唯一最重要的技能。大多数人都有自己的行程，忙着谈话(或等待说话)以至于不能倾听你。如果你，不像大多数人一样，而是可以感同身受地真正倾听，那么人们就会喜欢你，最终帮助你得到你想要的。

Help Others

When you want something from someone, instead of asking for it, help that person get what he or she wants. If you don't know what he or she wants, then simply ask, "How can I help you?" Since so many people are out to only help themselves, when you genuinely seek to help others succeed in their goals and dreams, you'll stand out. And those people you genuinely help will in turn fight to help you succeed and give you everything you want. Help others first, without expecting anything--and the returns will be enormous.
帮助别人

当你想从别人那里得到什么东西，而非要求，帮助那个人得到他或她想要的。如果你不知道他或她想要的，然后简单地问，“我怎样才能帮助你？”既然如此多的人只会去帮助他们自己，当你真正寻求帮助别人成功实现他们的目标和梦想时，你就会脱颖而出。那些你真正帮助的人将反过来努力帮助你成功，给你想要的一切。先帮助别人，不期待任何东西，回报将是巨大的。

Be Yourself: Authentic, Transparent, and Vulnerable

authenticity, transparency, and vulnerability all breed trust. And when people trust you, they'll do anything for you. Open up to people, and take a chance, and you'll be rewarded.
做你自己：真实、透明以及脆弱

真实、透明和脆弱都能滋生信任。当人们信任你，他们会为你做任何事。向他人敞开心胸，并抓住机会，你会有收获。