如何得到你想要的一切?

Passion is contagious, but so is lack of passion. If you're not passionate about what you're talking about, why should someone else care? If you want something, you must be more excited and dedicated to it than anyone else.
为每一次互动注入激情

激情是会传染的，但缺乏激情也是一样。如果你对你谈论的东西缺乏激情，别人为什么要在乎呢？如果你想要什么，你必须更加兴奋，比任何人都要奉献更多。

Surprise and Delight Others

When you surprise and delight others, not only do you make them happy--you remind them that you're the type of person who might surprise and delight them soon again. Some classic examples: bringing home flowers to your wife for "no reason"; telling a customer his order will arrive next week but then overnighting it.
让他人惊喜和愉悦

当你使他人惊喜和愉悦时，你不仅让他们快乐——你提醒他们你是那种可能很快又会给他们带来惊喜和快乐的人。一些经典的例子：“没有理由”地将一束鲜花带回家给你妻子，告诉客户他的订单下周到然后连夜发过去。

Use The Four Most Important Words in Business and Life

Say "I'm sorry" when you make a mistake and "thank you" as much as you can. These words are so simple, yet so often people overlook the importance of saying them. Just say "I'm sorry" and let another person forgive you, so you can move on, and eventually get what you want. Conversely, sincere gratitude to people is a powerful emotion to convey, and opens up many doors.
在生意和生活中使用最重要的四个单词

当你犯错误时说“对不起”，尽可能多地说“谢谢你”。这些话是如此简单，然而人们总是忽视说它们的重要性。只要说“对不起”，让另一个人原谅你，那么你就可以继续前进，并最终得到你想要的。相反地，真诚地感谢他人是一种强大的情感传达，能打开很多扇门。