朋友浑身负能量？五大理由远离TA

Why You Should Leave Your Loser Friends Behind
为什么要远离负能量的朋友

It’s not going to be easy, but letting them go is a necessary part of creating the life you’ve always wanted for yourself. Otherwise:
这也不是那么简单的一件事，但是想要过上自己想要的生活，远离他们是必须的，否则：

1. They’ll hold you back from your full potential.
他们会耗光你所有的潜能

The biggest thing I learned from my experience with friends like these is that you’ll never live up to your full potential if you’re constantly weighed down by unnecessary drama and complication. In order to succeed, you need a solid routine and a strong support system. Consider your loser friends the loose floorboard in that support system, constantly distracting you from your goals.
我个人对于这类朋友最大的经验就是，如果你长期被他们不必要的戏剧化和复杂性干扰，你永远无法发挥自己最大的潜能。要想成功，你需要一个坚定的路线和强大的支持体系。把那些负能量朋友踢出你的后备军团吧，他们能做的只是干扰你罢了。

2. They’ll make you feel like crap about yourself.
他们会让你觉得很糟糕

When they want you to do something you don’t want to do, they’ll constantly nag you and make you feel guilty about being who you are until you cave to their demands. It’s an incessant, vicious cycle that won’t end until you put a stop to it. If you don’t, get ready for a wide array of self-esteem issues.
如果他们想你去做你不愿意做的事情，他们会一直缠着你，让你有负罪感，觉得你应该满足他们的需求。这样一来就会形成恶性循环，无休无止。但如果不远离，你就做好各类打击自信的心理准备吧。

3. They’ll negatively impact your reputation.
他们会对你的名声产生负面影响

You were guilted into going to that party and became your sloppy friend’s crutch, and the dream employer you’ve wanted to work with since you were in public school is going to know that when they’re checking out the horrific pictures you’re tagged in on Facebook.
你被朋友说服陪TA去参加聚会（不去你会觉得很内疚），成为你懒散朋友的拐杖。你从上公立学校开始就一直梦想为其工作的理想雇主，早就在脸书里看过你那些恐怖的照片了，而你却对此一无所知。

More than that, if you’re this easily influenced in your personal life, they’re going to assume you won’t be able to hack it in a professional setting.
不仅如此，如果这个轻而易举的就影响到你的个人生活，他们就会觉得你无法在专业的环境中应对自如。

4. They’ll bring out the worst in you.
他们会让你不自觉展示最差的那一面

You know all of those bad habits you’re trying to break? Your loser friends will make it so difficult for you to build good habits you’ll constantly crack under the pressure and eventually give up on the concept entirely. After all, if you change for the better, your relationship with them will change for the worse, and will work against what they need from you.
你想试图改掉那些坏习惯？这些负能量朋友会让你举步维艰，你无法养成好的习惯，在重压之下你最终就会放弃。毕竟，如果你变得更好，你和他们的关系就会变得更差，这会妨碍到他们利用你。

5. They’ll dim the good things in your life.
他们会毁了你生活中的美好事物

You’ll be so focused on their drama, needs, and wants, the stress of your friendship will cause you to lose focus on the aspects of your life that are going well. Simply put, negativity breeds negativity—is this really how you want your life to be?
你总是关注他们的戏剧化生活、需要和想法，这种友情的压力会让你无法关注自己正在变好的生活。简单的说，消极带来消极——你难道真希望生活变成这样么？

So what are you waiting for? Leave drama to the circus and live your life exactly how you want to, with who you want to. If you don’t decide to do so now, your loser friends will decide for you.
你还在等什么呢？把这类人撇除自己的生活圈，好好的和那些你愿意在一起的朋友们过上自己想过的生活。如果你现在还不做决定，那些负能量朋友就会左右你。