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第一印象:让别人在90秒内喜欢上你
You only have 90 seconds, so the important point here is the 'first impression'. Below is a list of quick and easy steps which will get people to like you.
你只有90秒的时间,所以最重要的莫过于“第一印象”。下面是一些快捷简单的步骤能让别人迅速喜欢你。
1.Compliment them.
夸赞他们
The easiest, quickest way to get someone to like you almost instantly is by complimenting them. I'm sure we have all experienced that even the smallest of compliments can make our day. Compliment them on what they are wearing ("What a beautiful dress you have, it really suits you") or something that they've done ("Hey that's a really clever way to tie your shoelaces, I'll have to try that next time"). This works because naturally, it is hard to dislike someone who is saying nice things about you.
让别人喜欢你最简单最快捷的方法莫过于夸赞她们。我相信每个人都体验过一个小夸奖能让我们开心一整天的时刻。夸赞他们的衣着(你今天穿的裙子好好看啊,真的很适合你),或是他们做了些什么(这么系鞋带真的很好诶,我下次也要试试)。这个会非常自然,伸手不打笑脸人呀。
2. Smile.
微笑
Smiling makes you look friendly, approachable and cheerful. These are qualities that people generally like to associate themselves with.
微笑会让你看起来非常友好,容易接近,更快乐。这些特质都让别人乐于和你接触。
3. Eye contact and body language.
眼神交流和肢体语言
This is important to show that you are polite and respectful. Make sure you make eye contact with the person you are speaking to and keep your body language open. For example, don't keep looking at the ground or staring into space, or talk with your arms crossed. This will make you look rude and unapproachable.
眼神交流和肢体语言。要显示出你的礼貌和尊敬,这一点至关重要。确保和别人说话时有眼神交流,别忘了加一点肢体语言进去。比如,不要总是东看西看或者盯着空白处,或是交叉双臂与人交流。这只会让你看起来十分粗鲁和不易接近。
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