第一印象：让别人在90秒内喜欢上你

When engaged in a conversation with someone, be sure to ask them questions about themselves. People generally like to talk about themselves, so it is fairly easy to get people to like you by being a good listener and taking interest in what they are saying. On the other hand, make sure you bring up some interesting things about yourself as well, to keep the conversation open and reciprocal.
和别人交谈时，别忘了问一些关于他们自身的问题。人们都乐于去谈论自己，所以要想别人喜欢你，不如当一个好的倾听者，对他们谈论的话题感兴趣。另外，确保你能从自身引发出一些有意思的东西，使得这个话题可以一直继续下去。

5. Know their name.
知道他们的名字

If you are meeting someone for the first time, it is assumed that within the first 90 seconds you will get their name. Remember it, and use it. At the end of the meeting, say your goodbyes but make sure to use their name, as it makes it more personal ("It was lovely to meet you Grace, hope to see you again soon").
知道他们的名字。如果你第一次和别人见面，最好能在最初的90秒之内记住他们的名字。记住，叫出来。见面结束之后，喊出他们的名字说再见，这会更亲密哦（“Grace，认识你真开心，希望下次能快速见面”）。

6. When in conversation, try to talk only about good or positive things.
谈话过程中，尽力只去说好的积极的事情

These are a lot more pleasant to hear than negative things. Talk about what you like or enjoy doing, your hobbies and special interests. Try not to badmouth anything or talk about your dislikes, because if you only have 90 seconds and are going on first impressions, you don't want the other person to think you have a pessimistic view of life.
谈话过程中，尽力只去说好的积极的事情。这比听那些消极的事情要舒服多了。说说你喜欢什么，喜欢干什么，你的乐趣和特殊的兴趣。不要总是大嘴巴的去谈论你不喜欢什么，要知道你只有90秒的时间来留下第一印象，你也不希望别人对你的评价是悲观厌世吧。

7. Dress appropriately.
合适的穿着

People judge on first impressions (and this includes your clothes) so make sure you dress appropriately for where you are. Nobody likes to see someone in home clothes at a fancy restaurant or someone with make up caked on their face at the gym.
第一印象对人们而言至关重要（包括你的衣服），所以确保你的衣服合适当时所在的场合。没有人喜欢在高级餐厅看到别人穿着睡衣或者是在健身房看到别人画着妆出现。