梦想其实并不远！7大实用生活技巧

Action is key. People talk about visualization and the law of attraction, which is fine, but it won’t get you what you want. Things will not magically manifest in your life unless you take action.
行动是关键。人们谈论视觉化和吸引力法则，这很好，但是它不会给你你想要的东西。很多东西不会魔法般地在你的生活中出现，除非你采取行动。

It is only when you take action, when you commit, that things will start to happen. When you show you are willing to do this, that’s when your life will change. Jump and the support net will appear beneath you.
只有当你采取行动、当你去做时，事情才会发生。当你表示出你愿意做这件事时，你的生活就会发生变化。当你跳起来时，支撑网就会在你下面出现。

So, what did I do? I focused on my next smallest step. I was confused, and I still am from time to time, but I just focused on what I needed to do next. I’ve built a successful online business around my passion. When I was building it, all I did was focus on my next smallest step.
那么我做了什么事情？我把注意力集中在下一个最小的步骤上。我困惑过，现在也时不时地会迷茫，但我只是把注意力集中在下一步我需要做的事情上。我凭热情建立了一个成功的在线业务。当我建立它时，我所做的事情就是把注意力集中在下一个最小的步骤上。

5. Commitment
承诺

I believe one of the most important factors of my success was my commitment to making it work.
我相信我成功的最主要的一个因素是我承诺要成功。

I stopped looking for permission. I took back my power and I used what I had to get the results I needed. I committed to what I was doing. I no longer looked for permission to do anything. I just did it.
我不再寻求别人的同意。我收回我的权利，我用已有的东西来得到需要的结果。我对自己正在做的事情进行了承诺。我做任何事情都不再寻找别人的同意，我就是去做。

You have to commit to what you are doing. It ís not about maybe achieving your dreams. It’s about making it happen. You either do it or you die trying. It’s not a question of if, but a question of WHEN.
你必须对自己所做的事情进行保证。不是因为这样可能实现你的梦想。而是因为这样能让它发生。要么去做，要么一直努力尝试。不是如果的问题，而是何时的问题。

6. Proper Expectations
恰当期望

Most people give up before they see the first sign of success. That’s why you need to have the proper expectations.
大部分人在看到成功的第一个信号前就放弃了。这就是为什么你就需要有恰当的期望。

You cannot expect to live the lifestyle you want in 6 months. There are a lot of products promising you that, but that’s just marketing hype.
你不可能在6个月内过上你想要的生活。有很多产品对你这样承诺过，但是那只是营销骗局。

Ignore it. And embrace reality. This will take longer than you expect, but shorter than you fear. And besides, who cares how long it takes? Are you going to give up on your dreams and live the rest of your life in regret? That’s unacceptable.
忽视它，拥抱现实，这会比你预想的时间要长，但是比你害怕的时间要短。此外谁关心到底花了多长时间？你准备放弃梦想让自己余生在悔恨中度过吗？我无法接受这样的命运。

7. Excuse Management
借口管理

And finally, you have to fine-tune your internal bullshit detector.
最后，你得对自己的借口探测器进行微调。

You will have excuses. We all have reasons for why we can't do something. But if you truly want results, you have to get proficient at swiping your excuses to the side.
你会找很多借口。当我们不能做某些事情时，我们都有很多理由。但如果你真正地想要结果，你就必须能熟练地把借口甩到一边。

In the end, the difference between those living their dreams, and those who are just getting by, is their mindset. They are unwilling to put up with the excuses their mind makes. These are just thoughts, merely suggestions from your mind.
最后，那些过着自己梦想生活的人和那些只是混日子的人之间的区别就在于他们的心态。他们不愿意忍受他们所想出来的借口。这些只是想法，只是你大脑的建议。

You can make your wildest dreams come true. Will it be scary? Hell yes. Will it take a long time? It will take the time it takes. Will it be worth it? More than you can imagine.
你可以让自己最疯狂的梦想成真。会可怕吗？当然了。会花很长时间吗？该花多长时间就花多长时间。会值得吗？比你想象得要值。

But most people never do what they truly want. They end up looking back at the end of their lives wishing theyíd done more. The truth is that the path to your dreams starts with one step. And you can take that step today.
但是大部分人都从不做他们真正想要做的事情。他们在生命结束之际回首往事时，希望自己做了更多的事情。事实上，通往梦想的道路从第一步开始。今天你就可以迈出这一步。