爱情靠经营：和爱人一起做的14件事

Romantic relationships can be the most wonderful part about your life, but they can also be the worst. What are some things you can do in your relationship to move it towards the “wonderful” spectrum?
浪漫的爱情莫过于是生活中最精彩的一部分，但也可能会是最糟糕的。想要感情达到完美的状态，我们就一起看看下面情侣间可以做的事情吧。

1. Talk about your day
谈论关于自己的一天

In any relationship, sharing every day experiences can help both sides. The person sharing can get any frustrations or thoughts off of his/her chest and the listener gets to know more about the other person.
在任何关系里，分享每天的经历对双方都有好处。分享的那个人能把心中的郁闷和想法释放出来，另一个则能更好的了解对方。

2. Play together
在一起玩

One important thing you can do in your relationship is to have fun and be silly together. Find a sitcom you both enjoy or Google jokes to tell each other. We’ve all heard that the best medicine is laughter, right? You can also break out the board games and a bottle of wine for a night of playful competition.
情侣关系中一件重要的事情在于你们可以一起玩乐一起做些傻事。找一个大家都喜欢的情景喜剧或者网络笑话一起乐乐吧。我们都听过一句话，笑容是最好的治愈良药，对吧？你还可以和对方一起喝点啤酒，来一场桌游，度过一个欢乐竞争的美好夜晚。

3. Make food together
一起做饭

Whether it’s cooking dinner or whipping up homemade chocolate chip cookies, food brings people together. You not only get to spend time together in the kitchen, but you also get to revel in the success of your dish and enjoy a meal together.
无论是烧饭还是手工做些巧克力饼干，食物可以把吃货们捆绑在一起。你们不仅在厨房共度时光，还能做出美食，一起吃一顿美餐。

4. Define boundaries
设定界限

Whether you’ve been together five days, five weeks or five years, you might not be on the same page all of the time. You need to let the other person know what is and is not okay in regards to the relationship. This knowledge will allow you both to feel more relaxed, safe and comfortable.
无论你们在一起五天、五周还是五年，你都不可能时时刻刻和他想到一块儿去。你需要让另外一个人知道，在这段感情中什么是可以做的什么是不可以做的。这样你们俩人都会感到轻松、安全和舒服。

5. Be honest
诚实点

Nothing hurts a relationship like a lie. It might not even be a huge deal, but the deception alone breaks trust that can be hard to recover. If you are feeling guilty about something, however small, it might be best to confess right away to ensure it doesn’t come up later.
没有什么比谎言更能打败爱情的了。也许不是什么大事，但欺骗本身就会破坏信任，再难修复。如果你对什么有一种负罪感，无论多小，也许解决它的最好方式就是去承认，只要敢于承认，怎么都不算晚。

6. Snuggle
依偎

Physical touch is so important to feel connected with your partner. Grab some popcorn and your favorite, movie and hunker down for a cozy night together.
身体的接触对于两个人之间的亲密感也非常重要。一份爆米花，一部你最爱的电影，两个人舒舒服服的度过温馨的夜晚吧。

7. Text good morning or good night
发短信祝早安或晚安

Starting and/or ending the day showing your love you are thinking of him/her can help strengthen your relationship.
开始/结束一天，不妨发个短信给她来表示你会想到她吧，有利于增强你们的关系。