爱情靠经营：和爱人一起做的14件事

Whether your loved one is in school or working a job, he/she needs to know you support what he/she does! Surprise your special someone a note of encouragement.
无论你爱的人是学生还是已经工作，他/她都需要你支持他/她做的每一件事情。给爱人留一个鼓励的便条，给他/她点特别的惊喜吧。

9. Hang out together in a group
一群人出去玩

Spending time as a couple is important, but it’s also important to see your partner interact with other people. You will likely remember why you fell for this person in the first place.
二人世界固然重要，但也别忘了去和朋友接触交流。你也许记起在感情的最初，你为什么会爱上这个人。

10. Sweat together
一起流汗

Being physically fit is important as it is, but those who are in romantic relationships tend to ditch the gym in favor of spending time with his/her loved one. Why not combine together time and gym time? Most individuals find it attractive to see their partner break a sweat!
身体健康是非常重要的，但有伴侣的不妨和爱人一起选择在健身房共度时光吧。为什么不一起去健身呢？大部分人都觉得伴侣在大汗淋漓的时候最有魅力呢！

11. Be willing to compromise
愿意妥协

You might not always see eye to eye in your relationship; after all, you are two different people! The key is to be understanding of the other person’s ideals and when possible, meet halfway. This does not mean you have to give up everything you believe in, however it also means that you might not get your way every time. Accepting this balance is key in a healthy partnership.
在这段感情你可能不会一直跟对方意见完全一致，毕竟你们是不一样的个体。关键在于要去了解对方的想法，合适的时候，需要大家各自退让。这不意味着你要放弃自己所坚信的所有东西，而是说你没必要一味的去坚持自己的做派。要想关系健康发展，就要平衡好这一切。

12. Compliment each other
赞美对方

There is plenty of pressure from the outside world to be perfect—the perfect body, the perfect disposition, to be the most successful. A romantic relationship should be a safe place, so reassure your partner that he/she is attractive, loveable, and accomplished.
外界环境有太多的压力，我们都想做到最好——最好的身体，最好的性情，来达到最成功的的状态。而一个浪漫的爱情关系应该是温馨的港湾，所以不妨夸夸另一半是多么的有魅力、多么可爱以及成功吧。

13. Travel together
一起旅游

Exploring a new location, soaking up the sun, and trying new restaurants can help you further the bond of your relationship. If you travel via car to said destination, there is bound to be lots of conversations. You will surely get to know each other much better.
去一个新的地方探险，沐浴在阳光下，尝试一家新饭店，这些都能增进你们之间的感情。如果你是自驾去目的地，那么沿途可以一直说话。你们就可以更多了解对方啦。

14. Be willing to work
愿意工作

The final is a must. Relationships can be fun, but you also may encounter rough times. You must work through this to make your bond deeper and come out the other side stronger and happier than ever.
最后一点至关重要。关系可以是轻松愉快的，但也可能会遇到艰难期。你必须熬过这些来加深感情，从外面加固它，这样才能一直开心下去。

There might not be as much stress if you are not in a romantic relationship, but you certainly will not find the benefits of truly sharing life and love with someone if you don’t take the plunge!
如果不是在甜蜜恋爱中，也许不会带来太大的压力，但如果你不采取策略，就肯定无法领会好的感情所带来的生活和爱啦。