送礼潜规则: 过节送礼的9个艺术

9. Don't feel obligated.
不要强迫自己。

Don't try to give a gift that financially matches the gift they're giving you if you can't afford it. Instead, take some time to get them a homemade or thoughtful gift. In fact, don't even feel beholden to give gifts if you can't afford it this season. Let people know that you won't be doing gift exchanges this year, and they'll understand.
如果你买不起，不要试图给一份在价钱上相匹配的回礼。相反，花点时间给他们自制的或用心的礼物。事实上，如果今年你负担不起的话，甚至不要认为送礼是必须的。让别人知道你今年不参加礼物交换，他们会明白的。