十个原因告诉你 为什么你的朋友那么少

8. You Gossip

你太八卦

If you gossip non-stop, people will recognize that you likely talk about them as well. Don’t talk negatively about other people or spread rumors. Instead, show that you can be trusted to respect people’s privacy.

如果你没完没了地八卦，别人就会觉得你可能会以同样的方式对待他们。所以不要去讲他人的坏事，也不要去传播流言。相反，你要表现出你是个尊重他人隐私，值得他人信赖的人。